1 Never talk about anything, nothing to say.
When they first started dating, two people always talked about endless topics, and they often talked until midnight. Married life is gradually the same, and I can't finish talking about my little secrets before going to bed every night. I don't know when the conversation between them will become "Do you sleep or not", "Turn off the lights" or "Go to bed today, I'll play for a while and then go home", and then I will sleep alone instead of back to back. So lonely.
You have a lot to say, but before you say it, the other person looks impatient, and then you swallow these words abruptly, so that every day you start your daily life without communication and grind away your last feelings bit by bit until one party can't bear to mention divorce! This kind of cold and violent personal behavior will make the other person feel chilling. Without emotion, two people will be very calm.
Often endless quarrels.
It's not terrible for couples to quarrel. What's terrible is that couples often quarrel. If our life is not dominated by tranquility, supplemented by quarrels, but by quarrels, then you are ready for divorce. This marriage is hard for everyone to stick to.
No * * * has the same language.
When lovers lose their feelings, they lose their common language. Even if one party tries to find a common language, the other party may not pay attention to you. Deliberately looking for the same language just proves that you have lost your feelings for each other, and sometimes you have to face what you should face.
4 no longer trust each other.
Trust is the key factor to maintain a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. If the husband and wife are suspicious of each other, suspicious of each other, making things up and finding faults, then this relationship will not go far. You know, you can't do two things at the same time, and two people who are getting farther and farther apart can't get together again.
5 if there is a slight disagreement, they will be separated and the two places will be separated.
As the saying goes, there is no overnight hatred between husband and wife, and trust between husband and wife is basic. If the two sides quarrel and conflict, they will separate. Then such a couple, the relationship between the two people must be weak, can not stand the wind and rain. This kind of love is not deceiving others, but deceiving yourself. If they are moved, they will use their loved ones to live a good life and properly handle their differences. If they don't like it, they will leave.
6 the emergence of a third party
Marriage is faithful and there can be no qualitative change in marriage life. When you know that some people outside your partner are very sorry for you, then such a marriage will divorce, and marriage life needs affirmation of loyalty, trust and mastery. Marriage is the work of two people, and no third party can show it! If husband and wife can't look at each other's sincerity and loyalty, then this relationship will inevitably collapse and split! So, in this case, divorce, there is no need to leave an empty shell and disgust yourself!
Conclusion: Actually, love is very simple. Love together. If you don't like it, separate. You don't have to go against your inner thoughts. Don't force yourself. This will not only make you unhappy, but also continue to consume your good time. The way for husband and wife to get along is forbearance, and it is inevitable that disputes and frictions will arise when people get along with each other. At this time, we should find ways to resolve differences, not avoid them. Every marriage is hard-won, and only you can be happy.