A businessman who sells this kind of software told the Beijing Youth Daily reporter that some of the "words" in the software are made by specialized "love tutors" combined with "big data". The software can even be used to pay for a "mentor" to chat with a girl instead of a male netizen. However, the Beiqing Daily reporter visited and found that some of the software in the "words" donkey lips do not match the horse's mouth, and even insulted women. A user of this kind of software confessed that the words taught by the software not only do not necessarily work, and may even damage the relationship between the girl.
In this regard, experts say that in order to build strong romantic and emotional relationships, young men and women should detach themselves from online interactions and participate in as many real-life social interactions as possible.
Concerned
Love chat by software?
Recommended words actually insulted women
"Can't chat with girls? Can't find a girlfriend? Big data tells you how to answer." Recently, some of the "high intelligence dating chat software" to make a lot of single men's heartbeat of the advertising slogan, triggered the netizens hot debate.
In the software mall, you can see dozens of "love talk software", a software in the promotional materials, the software contains more than 200,000 kinds of chat talk. "I don't know how to chat, search, wonderful responses for you to choose, copy and paste to tease the girl."
The main interface of this software can be seen, there is a special relationship discourse column, the column includes men and women communicating in different scenarios, some scenes are also subdivided into different options, such as the opening scene, you can see the "pick up the opening" "interesting pick up "
These are the most important things you can do when you are in the middle of a conversation.
Each "love talk" includes a conversation between the man and the woman, such as the woman said to the man to continue as it is now, the software provides the man with five answers such as "you want to keep our relationship you have to continue to invite me to dinner," and so on. There are buttons at the end of each response that allow you to copy the response and paste it into the chat program.
But if you're searching for what a girl says, as the software advertises, you'll need to buy a membership to the software, which can cost up to 498 RMB. The software claims that a large number of users have already purchased a membership in the membership purchasing interface.
And another love talk type of software, search for any words in the software, there will be recommended answers. But usually only two responses are free, and to view more responses, you need to buy a membership to view them as well.
However, the North China Youth Daily reporter noted that the recommended answers given by the two software are not always reliable. Some of the men answered words with obvious obscene information, and some even directly insulted the personality of women.
Investigation
Businesses said that money can be spent by the "mentor" chat
Users said that the words instead of destroying feelings
A sales of such words of software merchants, software words every day by the "professional love tutor" and programmers combined with the "professional love tutor" and the programmer.
The merchant said, "The love tutor" is a staff member with a psychologist's qualification certificate, and after joining the membership, the user will be guided by a specialized guide, guide to dress with, and can even replace the user and girl chat. The businessman admitted that some of the words from the previous controversial netizen "offline love training" course.
A male netizen who has used this kind of "love talk software" told the Beijing Youth Daily that he found a "high love quotient dating and chatting software" in the software mall. "I flipped through it, and before I could actually use it to communicate with girls, a window popped up asking me to buy VIP services to continue viewing. I was hesitant, but look at the software has been saying how many different words updated every day, I spent 199 yuan to buy the VIP service."
The netizen said that after purchasing the service, some of the previously hidden "tricks" could be viewed, but it didn't feel any smarter than the previous publicly displayed tricks. "A few days, the software reminds me that I can buy the teacher's video tutorials, this tutorial charges more than 300 yuan, I look too expensive, I did not buy."
In August of this year, the netizen tried to chase a girl, in the WeChat chat using the software recommended words, "when she sent a, I entered into the software, look at the recommended answer, because sometimes there will be more than one recommended answer, I will have to spend some time to choose, the results of the girl asked me if I was absent-minded, but instead of making the chat more awkward. "
The netizen confessed that after trying a few times the software recommended words, found that these words are not reliable, and once even used the words, but instead of the girl angry. "At that time almost to break up, since then, I have never used this software, are my own ideas to tell each other, but everything is going very well."
Viewpoint
Young people can not rely on relationship software
The reality of the relationship is irreplaceable
In this regard, Professor Xiao Yaozhong, Professor of Sociology at the Sichuan Institute of Administrative Sciences, said that the emergence of this type of online "high IQ dating and chatting" software, popular among some of the young people, there is a specific social background. "Now in the network era, with the rise of smart phones and social platforms, the 'no meet' lifestyle continues to touch all corners of people's lives, allowing young men and women to make friends in a greatly changed way, but also let some people mistakenly believe that emotional relationships can also rely on online interactions, and even go into the 'high emotional intelligence dating chat' software," said Xiao Yaozhong, a professor of sociology at the Sichuan Institute of Administration. The company's newest product is a new, more sophisticated, and more affordable product that is designed to be used in a wide range of industries.
However, Prof. Xiao Yaozhong pointed out that, from a sociological point of view, romantic relationships, especially emotional relationships, are based on face-to-face interactions, and it is only by adapting to the needs of the other party in real life interactions that we can build up a stronger relationship, and this kind of relationship cannot be realized only through online interactions and the guidance of 'love tutors'. 's guidance to realize."
On the various "love software" in the claim that "words are based on 'big data'", Prof. Xiao Yaozhong pointed out that. "The first time I've seen this, I've seen it, and I've seen it, and I've seen it, and I've seen it. If we only collect information from online chats, how can we rely on online experience to guide offline interactions? Therefore, it is also doubtful whether the 'guidance' of the software itself can work."
Prof. Xiao Yaozhong reminded that from the theory of social interaction itself, if you want to build a strong romantic and emotional relationship, young men and women should detach themselves from online interactions and participate in as many real-life social interactions as possible.