Manic indifference, ups and downs!

A thousand strange and inexplicable lives!

Few confidants, a drunken party!

Every time you have to drop out of the pen for a long time, only to give up the pen, but people always have to have an outlet, so the habit of writing can never be quit.

As the title suggests, the first book I finished reading in 18 years, "The Past at the Trough", was the first book I made so many annotations while reading. The first time I heard about it, of course, was due to the Luo Cluesi, under the Luo fat eloquent, I believe that this is a very helpful book to improve the standard of copywriting. As a matter of fact, in terms of the level of description, it can really be used as a reference for writing material, although there will still be few parts that are not very suitable for teenagers. So much so, that I'm still dissuaded from recommending it to kids.

The Past at the Trough is divided into three main sections: A Bowl of Arsenic for the Soul, The King of Dark Cuisine, and The Slanting Sun is Always Beyond the Green Hills. Wakanaitou recounts a lot in the form of essays, talking about life, deliciousness, and hometown. Here I'll talk about life and hometown, because there's too much to say if we talk about deliciousness.

My favorite part of this book is of course the part that talks about life, the most empathetic, light, but powerful strokes, which should be considered the evaluation of it.

1. Growing up: ?

? There are so many good stories, but how many good experiences can fall into your lap? It's not so much a factor of being confident or not, but the longer you grow the more you realize " It's harder to not do what you don't like than it is to do what you do like! "In my case, embarrassingly enough, it just so happens that most of the things I like have nothing to do with making money, so I have to make a living doing things I don't like enough. Many years ago, I always thought that making money was for a better life, but only now do I better understand this sentence " Make more money, in order to allow you to have the capital of choice!"

I especially like the quote from the book " Growth is a process of gradually increasing High points and decreasing laugh points." The former allows you to be indifferent to everything and focus on doing things; the latter allows you to be able to sit down in front of the TV and die of sincere laughter when the leader tells a joke. It's sad, but there's nothing you can do about it; growing up is such a regrettable thing.

2. Excuses:

In the face of life, we always have a lot of reasons to put off, although the end result of the prevarication will still be transferred to their own body, but there is a reason, it is always better than not to let their own psychological better over some.

It seems that things in this world are so, when you go smoothly, you will take everything for granted, because they are smart, handsome, heaven's favor care. If you're in a bad situation, you have to find a scapegoat, and in Wakanato's words, "never take the blame, blame it on someone else. "

I don't think it's a bad thing to admit that you're an idiot once in a while. At least not always blindly optimistic, understand that they are not always good, not always get the favor. People often say that "stupid people have stupid blessings", probably because stupid people do not think they are smart, so there is no way to find too many reasons for themselves.

3. Learning:

The education we have received since childhood is to tell us that "life has to be planned, the future has to be a goal", but the results of the big data statistics tell us that: life is always a lot of possibilities, and the step by step may not be winning the jackpot, but the unexpected harvest is often a remarkable achievement!

That foreign who also said: genius has its own way out, fools are incorrigible. So he concluded that education is only for the middle part of the people, but our education for the middle people is too focused on professional and moral training, training out is not a social person, can not immediately get into the water to start swimming, which is a very bad thing. This requires us, outside of test-based education, to learn to maintain the habit of learning as naturally as we like to embrace new things, but very few of us can do so.

Another, and one of the most important things, is to understand what kind of people to learn from. Wakanato says "If a man has blood on his hands and sweat on his body, then the advice he gives, you'd better listen to." I think this advice is very pertinent, and only someone who has actually experienced it and has the ability to do it can have a personal understanding of your problem.

4. Dreams:

When it comes to this topic, there is no more familiar phrase than "Dreams are still important, in case they come true."

When it comes to this topic, the most familiar phrase is "Dreams should be dreamed of, what if they come true? People have to walk a long way before they can distinguish between "desires" and "dreams". Desires make you feel important, but dreams make you feel light, so light that you hesitate to take any measures. If you have only desires but no dreams, the best thing to do is to extinguish them. Having only desires makes one do only multiple choice questions, having dreams makes one do only proof questions.

5. Friends & old classmates:

One stupid thing never to do is not to try to manifest power in your friends. There are only two things that can happen: you fail, or the friend doesn't get to do it!

Old classmates get together, this is a happy thing, but many years of sparse contact, each living their own lives, and where so many interactions to say, push the cups and exchange of wine, to say that it was once the old days, we raised the glass, laugh through the belly, with the greatest strength to speak out the most serious words, with the greatest strength to play nothing, innocent listeners, here is clearly a kind of sadness. Everyone in more than ten years, finally learned to tell jokes to say once dared not say words, drink, cups touch together are the sound of broken dreams.

6. Workplace:

Do not try to change others, not to mention trying to distort their own hearts, but you can try to change the environment in which they are located, looking for a superior who likes you and appreciates you, go there to work part-time, so that because of the work of the people who get cancer and will be a lot less people.

After entering the workplace and getting qualified for the game, there are really only two things that most examine your personal ability: one is the ability to follow through, and the other is the ability to synergize the distribution of benefits.

Many times in the workplace, with the emperor's rule is a reason, always think of a good way, there is no way to carry out, is a person will have selfishness. Wrong, no one can say it, because who is not willing to be the head of the head, who knows you accidentally good intentions, it triggered the interests of who.

Poor communication in the workplace is also very common, I would like to say that listening requires a certain amount of patience, but it should not become patience itself, a lot of times people are thinking about how you should be so and so, but very few people to tell you why you need to be like this, because of the lack of understanding, so it is not smooth, but no one has the heart to adjust this state. Everyone is asking for others, from the point of view of interest, selfishness is human nature, but everyone is like this, talk about what the future, only a few people like this is also very annoying, a few grain of mouse shit bad pot of porridge.

The truth is how expensive, and how cheap!

7. Advice to children:

Do not watch TV, eat less snacks, and will not affect your growth, do not ask your parents, as far as possible for them to do something, anything, they will also be very satisfied.

When one day you grow up and leave home, get married, have children and start a family. Your parents arrive at your home to help you take care of your child who is only a few months old, tired and tightly clothed, and return home, the first thing they say is "It's better to be in your own home, it's your child's home, not mine." This is the most heartbreaking and inexorable words I have ever heard.

Speaking of hometowns, as a person who has never traveled far, probably not as many feelings as and beetroot, but the love of hometowns will not be reduced by one point, otherwise why always stay in this place? Since the feeling is not much, we will share a few favorite words!

1. Hometown is the starting point of their own world at this moment, where there are good memories, waiting for the family, and the reason for leaving in the first place. The hometown also eventually becomes the border of the future of their own world, so that every departure becomes a return.

2. We don't have that kind of luck to sit in a dimly lit bar and count the scars left on our bodies over the year. There is no such time to witness each other's many struggles and vulnerabilities, to see how you and I fall in the mud and try to get up. We're just strangers in a time warp, strangers who can't possibly recognize each other when we walk by face to face.

3. Some people are like this all their lives, when they look at the lights, they feel warm and unusual, and they are eager to get close. The moment they get close, they are forced to retreat by the heat and flee. The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to see it.

4. Need a kind of fairness, don't ask a foreign country to give it can't give the kind of field, also don't to the hometown to force their own have not spent the moment together. There is a need for a reconciliation with oneself. Understand that destiny is so, life is so, the world of change will not have a piece of the unchanging place belonging to you.

5. Try to learn to forget the nostalgia and alienation, learn to empty!

For the hometown, turquoise water, blue sky, also love; haze in the sky, also love; dark injuries, old memories also love; full of unknown also love. No matter what, it carries your past and even the future, just because it is your hometown, is the place where you go back to be frank and down-to-earth.

7 cents of arsenic and 3 cents of home to share the end, I do not know how many people can see the end, if you can see here, I want to say congratulations, if you like, come to a praise it! May everyone have a home to return to, a hometown to remember, and a dream to do!