Girls must read 8 books before getting married

1. "Siege" Rating: 9.6 "Siege" is a unique style of satirical novels in the history of modern Chinese literature, Qian Hammershu with his free and humorous writing, depicting a group of intellectuals of the life of all kinds of, known as the "new Confucian history". Life is a walled city, marriage is a walled city, rushed in, will be surrounded by all kinds of survival worries.

2. "Intimate Relationships" Rating: 9.3 After reading this book, you will have a brand new understanding of all aspects of intimate relationships, such as interpersonal attraction, love, marriage, commitment, friendship, passion, communication, sexuality, attachment, choice of spouse, jealousy, derailment, domestic violence, etc. It is suitable for everyone who wants to have a sweet love and a long marriage. It is suitable for every general reader who wants to have sweet love, a long marriage, and a happy life.

3. "A Happy Marriage" Rating: 8.3 "A Happy Marriage" is a very practical guide to marriage that any couple can benefit from. In the book, Dr. Gottman uses big data to restore the truth of marital relationships and summarizes the 7 laws that keep marriages from breaking up, guiding readers to create a highly emotional and long-lasting marriage.

4. The Invisible Contract Rating: 9.6 There is an invisible contract between every pair of partners. A good contract creates a beautiful marriage, but a good contract may also be out of balance one day. When there are conflicts, quarrels, extramarital affairs ...... and various other problems between couples, it means that there is something wrong with the partner contract between the two. According to Adler's psychological theory, the partner contract can be changed. And there is more than one way to change it.

5. "The Plunge" Rating: 8.2 Life is like an abyss into which you plunge understanding, tolerance and love, but you can't hear the echoes. The German-language full-length novel "The Long Jump" tells its story with the characteristic clear gaze of a woman who has not fallen from her life and ego even in an emergency. In addition to men, women want love, freedom, friends, nothing to do, and the pleasure of a moment of sinking and destruction.

6. The Five Capacities of Love Rating: 8.6 The Five Capacities of Love proposes solutions for Chinese gender relationships, helping you to reacquaint yourself with the self, improve your emotional intelligence, own love, repair love, and cherish love. Emotional coach Zhao permanent proposed: love a person need to have the ability to love, but it contains five kinds of love ability, they are-emotional management, narrating love, **** love, allowing, and influencing.

7. Marriage: The Challenge Rating: 7.6 One of the earliest books to explicitly direct attention to the issue of marriage. Not only does it address the issue of how to deal with the "challenges" of marriage, but it also provides a comprehensive and systematic description of all aspects of the relationship - how a man can be a husband, how a woman can be a wife, and how to take care of the tree of love if one wishes it to be evergreen.

8. The Five Languages of Love Score: 8.7 If love is a myth, then this book can make the dream come true; if love is a honey, then this book will teach you how to prevent moisture and corrosion, so that love into the marriage will never fade, and will always be as new.