Communicating with others in the right language is the only way to explain clearly how different things and systems are used and what they are like.
Language is the bridge of information communication between the two sides, is the channel for the exchange of thoughts and feelings. Language occupies the most basic and important position in interpersonal communication.
Language as a way of expression, with the time, occasion, the object of different, and express a variety of information and colorful thoughts and feelings expressed.
The key to polite speech lies in respect for each other and self-humility. To do the following:
(a) salutation Salutation, also known as "salutation", it is the opposite of "humble language", is to show respect for polite words. In addition to the necessity of politeness, the use of honorifics can also reflect a person's cultural cultivation.
The use of honorific occasions First, the more formal social occasions. Secondly, the conversation with teachers or people of higher status and position.
Third, dealing with people for the first time or meeting people you don't know very well. Fourth, official occasions such as meetings, negotiations, etc., etc.
(2) Modest language Modest language is also known as "humble speech", it is the opposite of "honorific", is to express humility and self-effacement of a word. The most common use of modesty is to refer to oneself and one's relatives in front of others.
For example, one refers to oneself as "Yu", "Jia Yan", "Jia Ci", "Jia Brother", "Jia Sister-in-law", and so on. Self-humility and respect for others are an inseparable unity.
While humility is not used much in daily life, its spirit is everywhere. As long as you show your modesty and earnestness in your daily phrases, people will naturally respect you.
(3) Elegant Language Elegant language refers to some more elegant words. They are often used in formal situations and in the presence of elders and women as an alternative to more casual or even vulgar words.
The use of colloquialisms demonstrates a person's culture and respect for others.
In hospitality, if you are entertaining a guest, when serving tea, you should say, "Please have some tea". If you are also entertaining with refreshments, you can say, "Please have some refreshments."
If you finish your meal before someone else, you should greet them by saying, "Please enjoy your meal."
The use of elegant language is not mechanical or fixed. As long as you are polite and courteous, people will have a deeper impression of your personal cultivation.