If you want to become more and more valuable and can't save money blindly, the key is to do these three things well.
1. Reading in this way is better for you.
The word big data has been mentioned more and more, which refers to this era of massive data.
Some people are optimistic about the era of big data, what information they want, and they will come out after searching online.
But some people are not optimistic, because in the era of big data, the people who suffer the most are stupid people or people who have no independent thoughts. Those who benefit the most are experts or smart people.
Tik Tok is so popular, in the final analysis, because it serves human nature and can analyze human nature.
Behind Tik Tok is a strong and professional R&D team. Every time you watch a video, Tik Tok will record how long you watched it, what type it belongs to, and what videos are related to it, and analyze it repeatedly. In the end, all the content that suits your taste will be pushed to you. So the more you brush, the more you can't stop.
Now the cost of studying is getting higher and higher, because we simply can't tell what we should see, read and believe. This is caused by lack of knowledge or insufficient professional screening ability.
If you really want to be better than the average person, most people still need to read more books. But remember, the high realm of reading is not seeking fast, reading fast and absorbing all. This is the reading level of some geniuses.
The most important thing for ordinary people is to know what they should not read. You know, what you don't need now, don't look too carefully, or just skip it.
Watch less dry goods, such as teaching you to write in three days, or getting rich overnight. It doesn't occupy the memory of your brain, it can do a good job of screening information and maximize the value of time, which is enough to surpass most people.
2. Speaking of being a man.
The key to attractive speech and high emotional intelligence lies in three points: large amount of information, strict logic and humorous expression.
Increase the amount of information through knowledge accumulation and extensive reading. Improve thinking logic, watch more detective suspense dramas, and learn reasoning. Express humor, watch more sketches, or learn from people who speak humor around you.
Online popularity teaches you how to see through people's psychology, but if you think about it with your head, can people see through it easily?
The author should have seen through it, so there is no need for code words. I think it is better to learn to understand human nature than to see through people.
Human nature has weaknesses and basically cannot stand the test. Many girls call love rat a scum? It's scum, but you don't recognize people when you mention your pants, and you allowed him at first.
With your permission, most boys won't miss the chance to sleep with you. Therefore, if you don't have the ability to bear betrayal, don't trust others easily, give everything and go against your own principles.
In front of temptation, everyone can be a wolf. The only thing you can choose is that if you don't give the other person a chance to seduce, you won't make yourself a prey in other people's pockets.
If you don't want to worry too much about emotional intelligence, it is enough to be cautious and learn to understand and tolerate human nature.
Talking about seeing the world
What should I do if I want to broaden my horizons, improve my pattern and see the world?
Communicate more with strangers and learn more.
Although I am introverted, because I like to communicate with strangers, I can communicate with others at will, whether at the station, in the street or in the shop.
This has brought me two benefits. First, I can hear the accents of some city people and guess whether she (he) is from Sichuan or where. Secondly, I can meet my predecessors who are better than me, or give a speech in public, and I can perform without stage fright.
Seeing the world doesn't have to look at the whole world. Young people can learn more about history and watch high-quality documentaries, such as The Rise of Great Powers, Daming Palace, The Turning Point of History and Lecture Room.
Studying history is like watching that black swan. You say the workplace is deeper, but in fact officialdom and politics are more complicated. In the long river of history, there are indeed many strategizing ministers, such as Sean around Liu Bang. These people are knowledgeable and wise. When the Black Swan incident comes, they will give you strategies and give you inspiration.
If you want to learn, imagine yourself as a figure in history and think about how you would react or make a decision if you were faced with the same situation. After such training for a long time, your macro pattern and thinking logic will definitely improve qualitatively.
Remember, everything that hinders your growth should be kept away, deleted and broken up.
Also, learning to be lazy means washing clothes and doing housework, which can be solved with money. Maximizing your time and money will enhance your personal value.
Finally, remember: most people who teach you to make money don't make any money, and there are talented poor people everywhere. And those who make money, the metropolis teaches you how to think, and the higher level is how to make judgments.