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The fastest way to destroy a person is to only look at what interests you
Yesterday, I had dinner with my best friend Xiao A. While she was sticking her hand in her steak, she handed me her cell phone and said, "Look at the home page of this APP, all my previous information content is gone, just that in the past two days, I have read some information about beauty, and it automatically pushes the content all about beauty."

I took the phone and slid several pages, not to mention really. I can not help but feel: now the software are almost their own little servant, providing motherly service, what you want, push you what.

"Don't you think it's scary? It knows what you want to do." Little A suddenly reminded me.

Now a lot of APP is using big data push, a lot of information is already filtered out after the presentation in front of us, shopping Taobao to see push as well as searching out of the same type with my previous purchases, look at today's headlines, push is also my frequent keyword search information.

Every move we make in life is in the careful and dense fabric of big data, and our world is like being "filtered", leaving us with what we are "interested in".

Neil Bozeman said in Entertainment is Dead: "It's not what we hate that destroys us, it's what we love."

The fastest way to ruin a person is to only watch what interests them.

The world is shrinking behind big data " thoughtful" pushing

Or take the example of today's headlines, you like it and I keep feeding you this content. Save time, save labor, I myself do not know what I want when you hand me to my mouth, the package is unpacked, the temperature is just right, all I need to do, as long as it is to open the mouth, and then swallowed, that is.

It is said that today's headlines push the content of vulgar, but today's headlines did not editorial decision in the end to push you those contents. It is millions of users again and again to like, read, a little bit of depth on the rapid crossing of a series of behavior, and ultimately *** with the presentation of such a result.

Today's headlines don't make decisions, he just finds what you want to see most in your head and hands it to you.

The information that you're not interested in, it literally never comes up again, and you've read a certain aspect of it before, and when you open it again you keep getting the same type of content.

It doesn't seem to hurt that the information on the front page of every program is limited, and when it's filled up with information that interests us, we're slowly being compressed for new things. We spend a lot of time, but we're getting the same thing over and over again.

Behind big data's "sweet" push, the world is shrinking. Big data is changing you through a set of algorithms over time, a bit like boiling a frog in warm water, unknowingly shrinking the world as we see it, and indulging in our comfort zones. In the end, we become the tamed dog instead, with narrower and narrower horizons.

Looking only at what interests you is just the beginning of staying put

There's a question on 知乎: "Why do people want to keep making progress?"

One of the highly praised answer: no limit is the premise of continuous progress, if just one in their own familiar circle, this time into the ant thinking in the predicament.

When we repeatedly receive the same messages, and avoid those who are not interested, we are easily limited to their own acres and thirds of land, to their own one-sided perception of the conviction.

It's important to try to get out of your comfort zone, to get stuck in a rut like "boiling frogs", and to work your way up to greater things.

My friend Xiao F is a more optimistic person, highly recognized for what they do, more lazy, like to stay in the comfort zone, is the kind of people who will not make things difficult for themselves. Love to play games love to watch movies love Japanese drama, but does not affect the work. After graduation, parents arranged to go to the state-owned enterprises, institutions, step-by-step work, the position has not been promoted, can really choose to jump out of her do not know what to do, can only be in place.

In the narrow circle, she sees people around her are this state, work, eat, sleep, such a cycle, it is easy to form a life is this way. She will think that the side of things she sees is all she thinks it is.

By only looking at what interests you and accepting your own inherent perceptions, it's as if you're setting a ceiling for your own growth, and in the end, you'll only be able to live the same life day in and day out.

What you see determines what kind of life you have

Early this morning, my friend G called me to complain that she was dressed up and excited to attend a business party organized by a client yesterday, but found herself unable to get into the conversation, and stayed in the room and was embarrassed.

I asked her what people were talking about and what you were talking about. She said they all talked about how to invest, what kind of investment channels have a high rate of return, and recently went to which country to play, where the scenery is the most beautiful, or which brand has a new product, I am a whole day to go to work to take care of the family, how to understand so much.

When I heard her describe it, I knew what the problem was. The fact is that people have different insights, which determines the different levels of life.

Other people are constantly broadening their horizons, getting to know new environments and learning new skills, while you have been plowing your own acreage, so how can you have a chat about the **** same topic.

People who always stay in one place, do not go out, it is easy to be trapped in their own world, become a "frog in the bottom of the well", the good things will never actively seek attention, the wonderful part of the world, those things that we once had no interest in, may be hidden in the real fun.

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