Such a thing is very common in our life. Short people complain that their parents are short, people who don't study well complain that their parents didn't buy a school district, people living in poverty complain that their parents didn't lay a good economic foundation for themselves, and people who can't lead complain that their parents have no right ... There are many examples in life. At the same time, many so-called authoritative data and "chicken soup for the soul" on the Internet also echo this view. Take the fact that you are short and complain about your parents. There are a lot of big data and scientific research listed online, and there is nothing wrong with doing so. After all, the height of children has a great relationship with the height of parents. It is also true that people with poor learning complain that they are not in a good school district, because many big data on the Internet also tell us that students who graduated from good schools in good school districts are more likely to be admitted to key high schools; Not only that, many chicken soups for the soul and many examples quoted on the Internet also tell us that our poverty and inability to be leaders are really related to our parents, because our current social background is so important and reincarnation is so important. Look at Wang Sicong. How often does he reincarnate?
We have to admit that in today's society, the objective environment does have a certain impact on a person's success. Under certain circumstances, a good objective environment is indeed easier for people to succeed. There is nothing wrong with this in itself. Children born to tall parents will definitely be taller; The probability of students from good schools being admitted to key high schools is indeed higher than that of students from ordinary schools. The probability of success in starting a business in Wang Sicong will definitely be much higher than that of ordinary people; The children of officials will indeed be much more successful in their official careers than those of ordinary families. However, because of these problems, those people with poor objective environment can complain about the objective environment without scruple. Is it right to complain that God is unfair to them? Obviously not, even, I think this behavior is stupid.
We should all know that philosophy tells us that subjective factors play a leading role in people's success, and objective environment can influence people, but only play a supporting role. What's more, many times, the objective environment is something that we can't change personally, while the subjective factors are the easiest for us to change. However, in today's society, more and more people blame their frustration on the poor objective environment. Why? This is because many people are addicted to pleasure, not enterprising, just want to enjoy the ready-made results, thinking about the day when they made a fortune, and don't want to struggle. Besides, if they are too tired to work hard, they may not succeed. So, when they are not satisfied, look at all kinds of data and chicken soup articles on the Internet that support their views. This kind of complaint became their best spiritual sustenance.
However, I think these people might as well make down-to-earth efforts instead of complaining like this. There is a good saying: efforts may not be successful, but no efforts may not be successful. In real life, there are many examples of breaking through the objective environment through our own efforts. Like some people whose parents are short, they will grow taller in the future through their own exercise; Some students don't study in good schools, but they can be admitted to key schools through their own efforts, and they are on an equal footing with the students in those good schools; Some people earn a lot of money through their own efforts in adversity; Some people have become cadres through their own efforts. Through their own efforts, they all broke through the objective environment that was not conducive to them, became the wave-makers who bravely fought the storm in adversity, and finally changed their future. I believe that through hard work, these frolicters not only broke through the unfavorable objective environment, but also brought them a great sense of accomplishment psychologically!
In fact, the author himself has such an experience. My parents are not tall, my father1.74m and my mother1.56m.. According to the so-called genetic theory, I must be short in the future. Even the physical examination report of my childhood predicted that my height would grow to 1.75 meters at most in the future. However, I didn't care. I have developed the habit of drinking milk since I was a child, and my family gave me enough nutrition for three meals a day. In addition, when I was growing up, I exercised so hard that there were still traces of being pulled on my thighs. With such efforts, I finally broke through the prediction. Now, I am over 30 years old, and my height has grown to 1 m 8 1. Many people are surprised to see that my mother is so short, but I am sure that I am my parents' own, and there is no problem of "Lao Wang next door". It was my efforts that broke through the unfavorable objective environment and moved in a direction favorable to me. Through my own efforts, I broke the genetic height of my parents' disadvantage and made my height exceed 1.8 meters, which also created more favorable conditions for my future mate selection.
The objective environment cannot be changed, just like playing poker. As long as we don't cheat, we can't choose the cards in our hands. Whether the cards are good or not, we can only accept them. If we want to win the next game, all we have to do is play the cards well and win. Similarly, the poor objective environment is not the reason for us to complain. Only by breaking through the limitations of the objective environment and making continuous efforts can we break through the limitations of the environment and become the leader of the times!