Some people say that when a love is lost or hurt, people often can not stand this blow, complaints, sadness, regret, aggression and so on together, if there is no place to vent, then it will be transformed into a heartbreaking hate, which is also known as the "love of hate".

The wrong life case, Yao Ce and foster mother Xu Min is not so, Xu Min in more than twenty years, gave Yao Ce the most selfless love, in the mouth for fear of melting, top of the head for fear of fear of fright, the son of a request, found Yao Ce after the disease, but also to make a liver to save the son of the move, which is undoubtedly the greatest love of the mother.

But to later find Yao Ce's biological parents, the middle of a variety of things happen, Yao Ce and Xu Min began to produce cracks between Yao Ce, and later Yao Ce is the Xu Min pull black, until Yao Ce passed away, Xu Min did not see the last side of the Yao Ce, people can not help but feel that the deeper the love and hate is the deeper.

Yao Ce is Xu Min's only son, and Xu Min and her husband are the youngest in their respective families, so everyone in the family is very pampered Yao Ce, can be said to have been star-crossed like a pampered, according to Xu Min's words held in the heart of the hand for fear of falling out of fear of containing in the mouth for fear of melting, and even the dinner time chopsticks are the father of the Yao Ce set up a good.

When Yao Ce was two years old, he was found to be carrying the Hepatitis B virus, which made Xu Min very remorseful, she thought that she did not take good care of Yao Ce, and the negligence led to Yao Ce contracted Hepatitis B virus, so she was very guilty of Yao Ce, and this guilt was transformed into a, endless dedication to Yao Ce, and in fact, later proved that Yao Ce's Hepatitis B virus is the birth mother's.

At that time, Yao Ce's Hepatitis B virus is the birth mother's brought.

At that time, Xu Min in order to take care of Yao Ce, specifically a year long vacation, when the couple's salary is only a few hundred dollars, but they gave Yao Ce to buy thousands of dollars of medication, through the treatment of more than 20 years, Xu Min's family exhaustion of money, and finally Yao Ce's Hepatitis B cured, Xu Min in order to Yao Ce to pay for the whole energy and blood, it can be said that Yao Ce is her everything.

When Yao Ce was small, Xu Min's family was always ready to help him, even Xu Min's father's salary was also given to Yao Ce, fearing that Yao Ce would suffer a little bit, as long as Yao Ce was healthy and grew up, the family was willing to pay for everything.

Xu Min let Yao Ce on the best school, let Yao Ce receive the best education, spend a high price to let Yao Ce on the focus of the class learning, summer and winter will be sent to Tsinghua University summer camp, in order to cultivate Yao Ce's reading habits, give him to buy two boxes of books, and Yao Ce during the school year, almost the first to use the newest models of cell phones and computers.

Yao Ce graduated from the university, was arranged to work in the stable work of the Bureau of Health Insurance, and then married and had a child, it can be said that in Xu Min's care, Yao Ce's life is very nourishing, and almost did not suffer a bit of aggrievement, to have such a loving mother, for Yao Ce this is the most fortunate thing in his life.

Yao Ce in the medical insurance bureau after work, feel more boring, so out of entrepreneurship, but all to failure, so lost the source of life, and his wife Xiong Lei since the pregnancy is no longer working, Yao Ce naturally hand to, to come to the loving mother to ask for living expenses.

From the dialog between mother and son, Yao Ze and Xu Min asked for living expenses, very justified, although Yao Ze gnawed on the old, but also can be seen in the relationship between mother and son is very close.

But Yao Ce was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer at the age of 28, the news let Xu Min to the edge of the collapse, she did not know what to do for a while, after the heartbreak, she in order to save her son, made the decision to cut the liver to save his son, but through DNA identification, found that she is not Yao Ce's biological mother.

This news is more so that Xu Min began to doubt the world, their own pregnancy born son is not even their own biological, so she found the production of children at the time of the hospital, after an investigation found that Xu Min gave birth to a child, the hospital side of the error led to the wrong replacement of her children.

After knowing the truth, Xu Min's heart to save his son is not a little reduced, she found through various channels, Yao Ce's biological mother and father, but also found his own was wrongly replaced by his biological son, Guo Wei, she put forward the hope that Yao Ce's biological parents to cut the liver to save his son, but the other side is not too willing to do so.

Finding Yao Ce's biological parents also laid the groundwork for the two later conflicts, and then all the things that happened, but also let the two close mother and son rift, and even to the point of incompatibility.

Xu Min cut her liver to save her son, found that Yao Ce is not her own biological son, was wrongly replaced by the hospital, through the DNA comparison of big data search, to find their own was wrongly replaced, living in Henan Zhumadian's biological son, Guo Wei, Xu Min from Jiangxi Jiujiang, not far from the thousands of miles to Henan, to see their own biological son, Guo Wei.

Xu Min saw Guo Wei's moment, has cried into tears, tightly embraced Guo Wei, mouth kept crying: "son", Guo Wei is also hugging his mother, whispered a sentence: "Mom, let's go home", this is a very cozy! The two were separated for 28 years and finally reunited.

From then on, Xu Min and Guo Wei often contact each other, on the one hand, to enhance the feelings of mother and son, on the other hand, Xu Min is more guilty of Guo Wei, to make up for their own Guo Wei missing 28 years of maternal love, but this also let the adopted son of liver cancer, Yao Ce heart is very bad taste.

On one occasion, Xu Min and Guo Wei video call, two people chatting very happy, and Xu Min also let Guo Wei's child called his grandmother, the family laughed happily, but sitting next to Xu Min Yao Ce, has been black face playing cell phone, you can imagine that Yao Ce heart is not like a million.

Yao Ce is accustomed to the exclusive enjoyment of Xu Min's mother love, now Xu Min has more than one pro son, the beginning of the mother love a little bit by the Guo Wei take away, Yao Ce is very unaccustomed to, and even some of the jealousy, once faced with the interview, Yao Ce himself also admitted that Xu Min and Guo Wei close to their own do not care about the false, but also can only choose to accept silently.

From now on, between Yao Ce and Xu Min, some slight cracks have occurred, and Xu Min also wants to buy Yao Ce's house to their own name, because Xu Min in order to save Yao Ce's disease, mortgage house loans, relatives and friends are borrowed all over, now can be said to be a family of debt.

In order to buy a house for Yao Ce, Xu Min also sold his own school room at a low price, giving Yao Ce a down payment, the rest of the mortgage by Xu Min's husband on a monthly basis, Xu Min and her husband now have no house in their name, so when Yao Ce passed away, Xu Min and her husband to the old man, and want to go back to the house is also understandable.

But this was strongly opposed by Yao Ce's wife, Xiong Lei, and even appeared on the Internet to tear apart the situation, Yao Ce said on the mouth is to return the house to Xu Min, but there has been no action, and later Yao Ce left Xu Min's letter explaining the reasons for his delay in returning the house.

Yao Ce said that he was afraid that after he passed away, his wife and children would have no one to depend on, and he even went to the street to beg for food, so he wanted to leave the house to his wife and children, Yao Ce was more worried about his wife and children, and Xu Min had a stable job and income, so Yao Ce didn't have too much to worry about Xu Min.

Later Xu Min found that the child may not be mistakenly replaced, may be stolen, because the child with the body with the mother connected to the bracelet, ordinary people can not easily open, and the child wearing the clothes brought from home, it is very likely that someone else intentionally replaced the child's clothes, so Xu Min wants to investigate this matter thoroughly.

But Yao Ce does not support Xu Min to do so, several times in the face of media interviews, he is to say that stealing and replacing is not possible, the police have investigated clearly, it can be seen that Yao Ce does not want to make a big deal, perhaps Yao Ce on the stealing and replacing or wrongly replaced, but he does not want to put the truth in the public.

Because Yao Ce's days are numbered, he just wants the two families to get along, so that he can spend the rest of his life in peace. He doesn't want his adoptive mother, Xu Min, and his birth mother, Du Xinzhi, to fall out, and end up making a mess for the two families, but Xu Min has already made up her mind to look into the matter, and so the disagreement between Yao Ce and Xu Min escalates.

Later, Yao Ce and Xu Min also began to tear on the Internet, Yao Ce is more exposed to his wife and his wife dislike Xu Min's chat records, this move is more so that the two were already tense relationship, become more tense, and then Yao Ce to Xu Min black, and even Yao Ce died, Xu Min did not see the last side of the relationship can be said to be to the point of fire and water. The two can be said to have reached the point of incompatibility.

March 23rd afternoon Xu Min learned the news of Yao Ce's death in Beijing, Yao Ce's wife, Xiong Lei, told her the news, Xu Min heard the news, immediately collapsed on the ground, she cried heartbreakingly, cried out: "Why did Yao Ce tell me after the death, who deprived a mother of the right to see her child's last face? " .

However, when Xu Min heard the news of Yao Ce's death, she was struck by the fact that she had been bedridden, and every day she looked at the ceiling and cried, and she faced the interview and said: "Yao Ce's first words were taught to me, and the first poem he memorized was also taught to me, and Yao Ce grew up to be everything I am, so why can't I see him at the end of the day? Why can't I see him one last time?"

It can be seen that although Xu Min and Yao Ce life contradictions, but she did not care about these, in Xu Min's heart is still y in love with Yao Ce, this a little bit of contradiction, for 28 years of affection, can be said to be insignificant.

Yao Ce also wrote a letter to Xu Min at the end, but also expressed a deep attachment to his adoptive mother Xu Min, Yao Ce said Xu Min's deep love of his mother, so that he can never forget, he does not want to be stolen, but too much love to do Xu Min's son, he secretly climbed to the side of the Xu Min, he hoped that in the next life to do a Xu Min really healthy and understanding of the pro-life son.

It can be seen that although Yao Ce pulled the black Xu Min, did not see Xu Min last side, but deep down he is still y in love with the foster mother Xu Min, then why the relationship between the two will be to the point of incompatibility? This can only be said that the deeper the love the deeper the hate is also the deeper, which is also known as the depth of love and hate.

Once a monk said: "Every good person has a guardian god, to protect you from disasters, but the guardian god is not as kind as the bodhisattva, always be able to tolerate your faults, the guardian god is more severe, and even you make mistakes he will punish you heavily, but this is also a kind of compassion."

So why is harshness a form of compassion? Because if you tolerate a person's faults, then that person will not be able to recognize his own faults, and will fall deeper and deeper into them, and in the future he may make bigger mistakes and harm others and himself, so punishing a person for his faults will in time make that person wake up and not make bigger mistakes, so severity is also a kind of mercy.

How can Xu Min not be so, she is tolerant of Yao Ce, Yao Ce, can be said to be a bit spoiled child, if Xu Min realized that sometimes harsh is also a kind of motherly love, then Yao Ce may be on the adoptive mother of Xu Min is another attitude, know what is to know the kindness of the repayment, rather than just ask for.

The case of the wrong life is worthy of deep thought by each of us, some of them are very hateful, some of them are pitiful, but I think each of them is very poor, can not escape the fate of the trick, if there is a little bit of choice, who do not want to be happy and happy, but the fate of the people is so tricky.