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Yesterday, a friend sent a message asking me, "My boyfriend borrowed money to get married. Should we pay off debts together after marriage? "

It turns out that she has been in love with her boyfriend for several years. Recently, she talked about marriage. According to the requirements of their family, my boyfriend bought a house, gave a bride price of 80 thousand and prepared a beautiful wedding.

As a bride-to-be, my friend has great expectations for the future.

Recently, however, she learned that her boyfriend had been in debt for the house, bride price and wedding.

Boyfriend and mother also joked, "You should work hard in the future."

She felt very uncomfortable and even wanted to break off her marriage: "As soon as we get married, we must pay off our debts together. Doesn't that mean she didn't give me anything? "

She also said, "It is natural to marry your son and daughter-in-law. Everyone else's family is a debt-paying parent. How can a young couple pay their debts? "

After listening, I forwarded a piece of news to her:

An old mother, in her sixties, went out to work and lived in a basement full of cockroaches. She never wants to throw away the leftovers, but hangs them high to avoid cockroaches and save them for the next meal.

All this is only because she married her son and borrowed a lot of money.

I asked my friend, "Do you have the heart to let your future in-laws live like this?"

0.2 million/200 thousand is a huge sum of money for the elderly, but for the young people, it is a test that can be carried by biting their teeth.

Moreover, in this world, there is really not so much truth, but more heart for heart.

A man is willing to lend money to marry you, but you don't want to suffer with him. All I can say is that you don't deserve him.

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I saw a story on the Internet yesterday-"What is the most coquettish operation you have done so far? 》

The blogger said that on his wedding day, he went to see his wife, and her mother-in-law suddenly asked for 8888 yuan to open the door without prior notice.

In order to get married, bloggers have spent more than 200,000 yuan, so they became angry at that time.

He shouted to his girlfriend's boudoir, "I have no money. If you are willing to marry me, come with me. "

After a while, his girlfriend didn't move, so he turned and left. -I'm not married, go home for dinner!

Fortunately, at this time, my girlfriend chased me barefoot: "Did I say I wouldn't go with you? They hid my shoes. How can I get there? "

To tell the truth, I almost cried when I saw this.

I sympathize with the young man who was made difficult by his mother-in-law, and also with the girl who ran out barefoot.

Getting married is really not easy. From the first day of marriage, there were a lot of problems beyond the outline.

In the face of all kinds of difficulties, except anger, our only solution is: "As long as you are willing to show sincerity, I am willing to accompany you for a lifetime!"

Mutual understanding between two people is more important than anything else.

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When the students talked about his sister's marriage, they couldn't help teasing: "My sister is a silly girl who sells herself and helps others count money."

His sister was married then, and the man's family was too poor to get a decent bride price.

Not only can't you take it out, you can't even borrow it. Scrambling together, it is still 40,000 short of the 654.38+10,000 required by their family.

But my classmate's father insisted on 654.38+ million, not a penny less.

The prospective brother-in-law was miserable and discussed with his sister: "Forget it, find a rich one."

When my sister heard this, she was furious and threw out a pile of money: "You have no money to be afraid of, I have money!" " "

In this way, she took out the 40 thousand pieces she had worked so hard to save and helped her boyfriend marry herself.

My sister was angry with her father for a long time because of the bride price.

Until the day before the wedding, dad put a bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan in front of her: "Dad wants a bride price, not for anything else, just to see if you have the ability to live together."

"You take this money back, and there are many places to spend money after marriage. Hey, if you can't even get 654.38+ 10,000, I really don't feel at ease. "

Everyone who has experienced it knows that money is very important, but it is not the most important.

It doesn't matter if a person has no money. As long as two people are Qi Xin, they can get through the most difficult time at the beginning of marriage.

This classmate said that after so many years of marriage, my sister and brother-in-law have always had a good relationship.

Occasionally, my brother-in-law is willing to let her go, often saying, "My wife is a modern Du Shiniang. Du Shiniang likes angel lee, angel lee can't afford to marry her. Didn't Du Shiniang secretly take money to help Li Jia marry himself? "

"It's a pity that the Li family failed to live up to Du Shiniang, and I have to live up to my wife."

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"My boyfriend borrowed money to marry me. Should I pay my debts? "

My answer is, either don't marry, or marry together to pay off debts.

Really, if you plan to live a leisurely life after marriage, watch your husband and his parents make money desperately, and expect family happiness, you might as well prepare for divorce.

Similarly, so do men.

The receptionist of the company broke up with her boyfriend a month before marriage.

My boyfriend also got married with a loan to buy a house, but he didn't want to add her name to the house. He also threatened: "It's all because their family is too snobbish and forced me to borrow money to buy a house! Well, this is the money I borrowed myself, and I will never add her name again! "

My sister asked, "I want to pay off my debts with you after I get married." Is it a joint venture? "

The boyfriend actually replied: "No, my salary is used to pay off debts. You only need to be responsible for the daily expenses at home. "

My sister broke up with him at once.

She said: "It is not terrible for a person to have no money, and he is afraid that he will be heartless and even the closest people around him will have to calculate."

What a family fears most is not lack of money, but lack of heart.

Many relatives and friends around me have no money when they get married. Some of them borrow money, some take loans, some can't afford to take decent wedding photos, and some even buy wedding rings at roadside stalls.

They once had no money, shared weal and woe for several years, and all had cars, houses and babies.

Recalling these, the woman is distressed by the man's hard work, and the man is distressed by the woman's hard work. They became the most loving couple.

When a man borrows money to get married, you should not only see that he is poor, but also see that he really loves you.

Be brave. True love may be bitter for a while, but not forever.