On August 25th, 22, the famous performing artist Song Dandan turned 6. She has always been afraid of trouble, but she specially held a 6-year-old birthday party. Zray, Andy and so on? Children? And many friends in the circle were present to congratulate. Song Dandan announced in a high-profile way that he would only perform dramas in the future, and would no longer attend CCTV Spring Festival Gala and take over film and television dramas.
In recent 1 years, Song Dandan has always been a famous actress. However, she also had a career downturn of more than ten years. In the most lost days, Song Dandan lived by speculating in stocks and almost ruined her marriage?
Song Dandan was born in Beijing in 196 and was admitted to Beijing People's Art Theatre at the age of 21. In her early twenties, she made her mark in the film and television circle by starring in the TV series "The World Found Back".
In p>1997, Song Dandan divorced Ying Da, and her son Batu Ying lived with her. Because Ying Da is a famous director, he can provide people with filming opportunities, so friends of Song Dandan and Ying Da * * * have alienated Song Dandan and sided with Ying Da. Even friends who used to be close friends kept Song Dandan at a respectful distance from others. This makes Song Dandan feel sad and inferior, lamenting that the world is cold.
under the introduction of Su Xiaoming and Zhang Baomo, a few months after the divorce, Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji formed a family. He is six years older than Song Dandan and is the manager of China Mechanical and Electrical Equipment Corporation. Zhao Yuji also had a failed marriage, and his daughter Zhao Ting lived with him.
Song Dandan, Zhao Yuji and two children
Song Dandan took a son, Zhao Yuji took a daughter, and Zhao Yuji's mother, five people formed a complex family.
After divorcing Ying Da, many friends in the circle stopped seeing Song Dandan, and no one asked her to film or perform. Song Dandan stayed at home and felt like a basket case.
In order to kill a long time, Song Dandan found someone to play mahjong, and he often played very dark. However, she often collapsed and cried on the mahjong table. I love acting, how did I fall to the point where I was drugged by mahjong?
Several times, Song Dandan played mahjong at a friend's house, and Zhao Yuji drove her home late at night. Song Dandan said tearfully? What's the point of living like this? ?
Song Dandan and her son
Zhao Yuji gave her advice: You can do something meaningful. Let me teach you how to stock. ? Song Dandan met some investors, and after breakfast every day, he rushed to the securities company, and his life seemed quite fulfilling. Song Dandan agreed.
Zhao Yuji runs it for Song Dandan at home? Crash course in stock trading? In three days, Song Dandan learned the basic procedures of opening an account, reading the K-line chart and buying and selling stocks.
Song Dandan took out 1, yuan of savings, and Zhao Yuji also gave her 1, yuan, which is the principal of Song Dandan's stock trading. At that time, she spent every day in a securities company, staring at the computer screen with a group of investors, and her eyes hurt. Looking at the red K-line chart, everyone cheered loudly; Everyone sighed when they saw the K-line chart turn green.
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Song Dandan
Half a month later, Song Dandan earned 4, yuan, and his appetite was suspended. In September 2, Song Dandan bought a high-grade tie for her husband. I earned this from stock trading. The stock market is amazing and it is too easy to make money. When there is a daily limit, it will be worth my hard work to walk twice. I want to add another 5 thousand principal. ?
Zhao Yuji looks solemn: Do you really want to use stock trading as a means to get rich? Have you seen anyone who really makes money by trading stocks? I'm asking you to find something to do, not to speculate as a gambler. The principal of 2, yuan is enough, so don't add another penny. ?
In order not to aggravate the contradiction between husband and wife, Song Dandan kept silent. But after the Spring Festival in 21, Song Dandan earned more than 3, yuan in a week, which made her blood boil. It's so easy to make money by speculating in stocks. What's the point?
Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji
At that time, Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji still had 8, savings, which were reserved for Batu Ying and Zhao Ting to study abroad in the future. The husband and wife had an agreement: no matter how difficult it was, the money could not be moved.
In order to increase the principal of stock trading, Song Dandan came up with the idea of this money. The certificate of deposit is written with her husband's name. She took her husband's ID card, took out the money and put it all into the stock market.
Song Dandan thinks like this: When he earns money, he will immediately deposit 8, yuan into a fixed term. So even if her husband knows, she has a good reason to explain.
Song Dandan
Song Dandan turned into a VIP in the large room of a securities company, guarding a house and four computers by himself. Both husband and mother-in-law are very kind. For more than a year, my mother-in-law cooked a meal at noon every day and asked Zhao Yuji to drive it to the securities company. Worried that her husband would find out the secret, Song Dandan stopped asking her mother-in-law to cook for herself at noon and ate fast food outside.
The stock market is unpredictable, and many stock experts are wiped out, not to mention Song Dandan? Two months later, Song Dandan's 1 million principal has shrunk by more than 3, yuan. This made her jittery, asking for gossip everywhere, and then day trading. In less than half a month, she lost more than 1, yuan.
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As a result, Song Dandan suffered a huge loss of 53, yuan. Under great psychological pressure, Song Dandan suffered from anxiety and insomnia, and his appetite was extremely poor, and he quickly became emaciated and haggard. Zhao Yuji loves his wife dearly and asks her what's wrong. Song Dandan couldn't bear the psychological pressure, and tearfully said that he had taken out 8, study abroad funds and suffered huge losses in stock trading.
Song Dandan
Zhao Yuji is in a hurry: Why didn't you tell me about such a big thing? After losing so much money, what should I do if my two children study abroad in the future? You are so irresponsible. How can you have a mother like you? ? My mother-in-law was so anxious that she began to cry: Is it easy to earn some money? How can I stand you doing this? ?
Song Dandan also cried: My heart is sadder than yours, and I will try my best to get back to my roots. ? Zhao Yuji questioned his wife:? Don't you want to stop? Do you want to lose all your money? ? Song Dandan is unwilling:? If I didn't throw it, it wouldn't be a loss. ?
Because of stock trading, conflicts between husband and wife and between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are intertwined. The relationship between Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji has been overshadowed, and the marriage has turned red.
Song Dandan
At this time, Song Dandan read from the newspaper that a Shanghai stockholder was paralyzed by jumping off a building because he didn't stop the loss in time. Her heart was shocked. If you continue to fry like this, you will have to fry your marriage. My husband is right. This 8, study abroad grant is earned by his hard-earned salary and his going to Shang Yan outside.
I remember that one winter when I was walking outside, Song Dandan wore thin clothes and stood in the cold wind to perform a sketch. After the performance, she had a high fever for three days. When walking outside, she sat in a caravan and ate breakfast at a roadside stall, and life was hard. If you lose all this money, what will the two children do in the future?
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In June 22, Song Dandan was completely? Cutting meat? , sell the shares under his name and give 56, yuan to his husband. Zhao Yuji didn't blame his wife: If the money is lost, it will be lost, and you should stop being sad. ?
Song Dandan and Zhao Yuji
Song Dandan sold their jewelry, raised 5, yuan, and then made the principal of stock trading. After that, Song Dandan didn't add any more funds, and used the money to kill time by speculating in stocks.
From the age of 36 to 48, Song Dandan's career has been in a slump for 12 years, and she has been speculating in stocks for 12 years. Although she lost money, stock trading still supported her through that difficult time.
Song Dandan
In p>28, Song Dandan's career was brilliant again, and he took over many film and television dramas, such as Spring in Li Chuntian and Marvin's War, and became a famous performing artist. Although the economic conditions were good, Song Dandan learned from the failure of stock trading and did not add large sums of money in the stock market.
After Batu Ying returned from studying abroad, he also traded stocks in his spare time. Song Dandan told his son with personal experience: Stock trading can only be used as a means of financial management, not as a profession, let alone a gambler's mentality. ?
Song Dandan and Batu Ying
She talked about the family conflicts caused by the failure of stock trading. Batu Ying's heart was touched, and he scattered his assets into multiple baskets, and the funds for stock trading only accounted for a small part.
In August, 22, the stock market showed signs of recovery, and many investors said on the Internet that they would sell houses and stocks, and lend money to stocks. Song Dandan reminds investors:? You should remain rational in stock trading, and you must never put your life on the line, let alone borrow money to stock trading, or you will bring disaster to your life! ?