Narrow-minded, immature and insecure. I think it's normal if your role changes. If you are a girl, "coaxing" your boyfriend is really not a good phenomenon. As a girl, you need a mature person to love, care and care for you. If he goes on like this, you will be very tired, and in the end you will have no feelings for this person, and even feel bored. So if he keeps doing this for more than a year or two, but not more than three years, you break up with him.

If you love him very much and want to change him, then tell him that he is an immature, unconfident and possibly narrow-minded little man, tell him the difference between a man and a boy, and tell him that he is just a boy rather than a mature man. Tell him to be a man with brains and responsibilities. When this character appears, tell him your heart and where you will go if you continue! Make sure he understands his situation and see if he can wake up.