Therefore, I have the following suggestions to share with you:
1, find out why my father-in-law wants us to do great things for my brother-in-law.
For such a family, it will actually make many people unhappy, but since we meet, we should face it head-on and ask why the brother-in-law's house is a big deal, so that we can better deal with each other's problems and benefit the harmony of the whole family. Because I have encountered similar situations in my family before, although I was still relatively young at that time, I felt the attitude of my parents, so my relationship with my brother-in-law was alienated a lot.
2. show your attitude.
If our family is not so rich and has our own family to support, then we should directly show our attitude to our brother-in-law and father-in-law and let them realize their difficulties. After all, any family will have its own difficulties, not a glamorous appearance, so you must not look at one thing from the outside, so that you can truly see the hardships of others.
Buying a house is a process that most people have to go through, but we should also analyze it according to our own actual situation to see if we have the ability to raise a house, and then consider buying a house, which can also reduce our burden. Although we don't pay a lot of loans every month, it is still a fixed expense, so we don't have to force ourselves to buy a suite, let alone let our family pay for it, otherwise our conscience will feel bad. I hope everyone can pay attention to it.