People often compare their careers with ladders, but this concept is no longer applicable to most people. Tee Sailor's new metaphor is more appropriate: career is a trellis, not a ladder. There is only one way to climb to the top of the ladder, but there are many ways to climb to the top of the grid. The following article is a copy of the workplace personality circle for your reference.
1, don't be confused by ideals. Ideal is needed, but it is not someone else's ideal, but your own ideal. In the workplace, you are independent. You should keep a clear head and don't be fooled easily. No matter what other people's ideals are, you should firmly remember your own ambitions.
2. Dare to make decisions to overcome worries; Challenge weaknesses to make up for defects; Break through difficulties and accumulate experience; Seize the opportunity and be good at change; Adjust mentality and be positive and optimistic; Good at communication and clever use of resources. You made it.
Every point is created by herself, and her deep happiness comes from her own struggle.
4, go to work every day, stay up late, wine is water, no spirit, people are in a daze, and their hearts are broken.
5, do anything, leave more room for yourself. There are too many people in this world, too little love, too much suffering, and money is hard to earn. Stay away from people who sow discord. If the section is high, drive with a villain; High ability, return the color villain. Highly respected and tolerant of villains; If the blood pressure is high, I'm afraid I'll only be angry with the villain. Offend ten gentlemen, not villains.
6. There are two main types of people who are least confident in the workplace: Mr. Nice guy wronged himself in order to please others; It can't be said that the young lady is walking in gossip and is seriously insecure. Is there such a person around? Or you are one of them.
7. Ability to identify talents. It is the ability to select a certain number of suitable candidates from candidates and employ them according to the necessary conditions of a job and the different purposes of personnel selection (that is, to maximize organizational efficiency and choose the best candidate for famous positions, which is called sexual orientation allocation).
8. I have just arrived in a company, and there must be a lot I don't know about my new job. Maybe someone asks you if there is anything you don't understand, and you can't remember it at once. In fact, when you first arrived at the company, we could record what we learned today and what the boss gave us. When we find problems (things you don't understand) at work, we should record them first, and then find opportunities to ask colleagues or bosses.
9. Don't dwell on an embarrassing thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be annoyed, miserable, tired, sad and heartbroken. Internationally, in the final analysis, you are not against things, but against yourself. No matter how embarrassing it is, learn to walk away. If you meet a gutter on the way to enjoy the beautiful scenery, it will ruin your mood of enjoying the beautiful scenery and delay other beautiful scenery. Think about why you are here.
10, young people have just left society, so they should learn to do more and talk less. The more you know, the more you know. Many a mickle makes a mickle, and you have much more experience in the workplace than others. When you climb to where you want to climb, you have a solid foundation. You won't just climb up like others, but it won't take long, but because you are not competent enough to climb up, you will soon fall down.
1 1. Your income has not changed, or the moving range is even worse than the average level. You should find the reason from yourself. If there are already excellent people in the same position, or the selection mechanism is unscientific, you should weigh whether this waiting is meaningful.
12, a person studying in a different place should learn to communicate with parents and listen to their elders. Learn to be patient, there is nothing you can't stand. No matter how wrong a person is, there is no need to punish himself with the mistakes of others.
13, customer meeting. At the meeting, I put forward several requirements: ① all managers must pay attention to the form of orders, it is meaningful to have orders, but it is meaningless to not make orders well; (2) Managers must work together in Qi Xin, communicate constantly, speak with numbers, and everyone is equal before numbers; ③ Change ourselves and the world, only change can survive, and change is our only choice; ④ Learning makes the future, learning ability is competitiveness, and managers should learn to learn.
14, everyone should be ambitious, even if they want to destroy the world. Ambition is the first condition to become a leading role. In the workplace, if you don't have a goal, you can't actively climb up. In the end, you can only become a walk-on and become a victim of others. Whether you destroy the world or become the richest man, you should be ambitious and aim at it.
15, after a day's work, except for working hours, I only have noon time with my colleagues. If you want to eat alone, try to eat with several colleagues. Then you can understand what you don't know.
16, with a goal, the inner strength will find the direction, and aimless efforts or wandering will eventually get lost. The priceless gold mine in your heart is no different from ordinary dust because it can't be mined. Your past and present situation are not important, but what you want to achieve in the future is the most important. You can only succeed if you have a goal. If you have no ideal for the future, you can't do anything great.
17, 1) Don't send too many emails; 2) Don't talk about things unrelated to work in the email; 3) Don't forward emails that shouldn't be forwarded; 4) Keep the evidence of sending mail; 5) Private emails avoid corporate network monitoring; 6) Let e-mail help you establish a diligent image; 7) Don't forget the correct time to send and receive emails; 8) Don't forget the correct CC and BCC; 9) Don't let email completely replace telephone.
18, a shallow smile will make people feel very comfortable. Laughter is a kind of respect for others, whether they are superiors or subordinates; Interpersonal relationship is like the balance of forces in physics. As you treat others, others will treat you. You know, everything is mutual.
19, don't discuss the right and wrong of your boss or other colleagues with your colleagues. Your careless words are probably evidence that others attack you.
20, the content of material incentives in the workplace, including wages, bonuses and various public welfare, it is one of the most basic incentives. In order to obtain more material benefits, it is the common desire of ordinary employees, which determines the satisfaction of their basic needs.
2 1. In the workplace, learning to be patient often requires more wisdom than strength. When you are full-fledged, you pay twice the price for those who hurt your dignity. That's when you are proud.
22. After choosing a good job, first of all, let your floating heart calm down, settle down and set a three-year deadline: settle down.
If a person pays attention to absorbing the strengths of others, he can learn different strengths that are beneficial to his own development from each work partner. People who pay attention to the advantages of others and don't care about their own shortcomings will find their colleagues easy to get along with.
24. People are often confused about the growth process and constantly ask themselves. When they can't find the answer, people often have inner anxiety about these unknowns, and career planning can help us strengthen our personal strength.
25. When I am just a strict "spokesperson" for the world, it is useless for you to hate me again! It's no use being isolated from the world!
26. There is a market for useful things. Only by living can we realize our own value. Instead of pursuing flashy things, it is better to do it on the ground. At work, we must first do our job well.
27. Sincerity is a key to communication, which can open people's closed hearts, as long as you persist.
Psychologically speaking, most people will only lose their temper with safe people. Because in that security level, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you. Noisy is a dependence.
29. This is an era of impetuous materialism. Nobody cares what you think, and nobody cares what you do. Before you make achievements, you should endure the loneliness that afflicts your soul, correct the tendency of cynicism, and resist the temptation of frequent sniper fire. If you don't succeed, don't overemphasize your self-esteem and lose the protective aura of success. Self-esteem is just a thin piece of paper that anyone can easily pierce.
30. Clean and tidy desk: This kind of desk is quite clean and tidy, and everything is in good order. The owner who owns this desk mostly gives people a sense of attaching importance to order, being down-to-earth and being trustworthy. When (she) does things, she often feels more secure, persistent and organized.
3 1, in many cases, it is because we rely too much on what we have or tools, and ignore our ability to do better. Lai makes us develop a kind of inertia psychology, and only by overcoming this psychology can we become strong.
32. The boss said he was very relieved of you, but the truth may be just the opposite. If your boss really trusts you, he doesn't need to mention it often. True trust is expressed through actions. The boss is willing to work with you to do something that harms others and does not benefit others, and to struggle in the workplace. That's a sign of trust. The boss paid lip service to you, but be careful. It is likely that you did something that made the boss suspect disloyalty.
33. Respect your boss. It means trying to understand her intentions and conscientiously carrying out her instructions-even if she only says a little, it is for the sake of covering everything, even if she is too persistent in details. Then it is also for good results. When she gives you a task, listen carefully and be patient.
It's not easy to let go, especially if you are a capable person. If you want to continue to grow, sometimes you need to give up control of something. Doesn't mean that your attitude towards things is to wait and see. You can still strive for greatness, but after hard work, you can let go. Believe that God will arrange it for you, and you will be surprised to find that everything goes smoothly.
35. If you really have no ambition, then fight for money. Everyone returns to the battlefield sometimes. Who wants to be an official if it's not for the money? Making money is the main pursuit of people. The dangerous situation on the field is that the boss wins people's hearts with ideals and wants them to work for nothing. If you really want to work for free, you are worthless. If you really don't want anything, go and make money.
Don't underestimate the power of negative psychology "negation", which will drive away all good luck.
As a white-collar worker, image is particularly important. Out of respect for work and colleagues, at least be neat and generous. It's really terrible to have a lock of hair pass by and smoke it, which will make it difficult for colleagues to get close, not to mention * * *.
38. Show weakness at the beginning of the interview and analyze the main reasons for asking for a raise at present. Find your own reasons and don't compare with other classmates or colleagues. It can be said that your living cost is relatively high, you have to pay off the student loan, or your family has a heavy burden, and so on. Emphasizing yourself is also a helpless move.
39. Whether you can solve the problem depends on whether you are given the corresponding rights; When you have the right to solve problems, it depends on whether you have such ability. On: right is not equal to ability; Ability is not equal to right, which is mostly the case in the workplace.
40. Instead of making others think we are so familiar, let others think please, we are so strange: instead of making others think you are too rude, let others think you are so polite. Simply put, this is to master proper limit.
4 1. Because I just entered the workplace, my ability to communicate with people is not strong. Many people are still straightforward exchanges when they were students, and it is inevitable that they will hit a wall or even be squeezed in the workplace.
42. Reduce frustration: Think of people who are more frustrated, more difficult and worse off than themselves in the workplace. After comparing the degree of frustration, I gradually turned my out-of-control emotions into calmness. The second time is to find and analyze the aspects that you don't feel frustrated, that is, to find out your strengths.
43. In any company, management positions are limited. Only those who are clear about their career goals and work hard for them are more willing to give them opportunities and have good work performance, which also reflects a person's enterprising spirit and attitude of pursuing success.
44. punctuality; Speak well; Good attitude; The tone is pertinent; Avoid loud noises; Pay attention to conversation skills; Don't do it yourself; Keep one's promise; Caring for others; Generosity; Be compassionate.
45. Accept without emotion, you can think calmly and give full play to yourself.
46. Adhere to optimism and self-confidence, and abandon hesitation and nervousness; Always smile, turn your back on your face and be stiff; Adhere to decent clothes and abandon fashion; Adhere to strengths and avoid weaknesses, and abandon excessive publicity. I wish you a smooth interview and job satisfaction!
47. Teamwork is an invincible strong backing. Ants can defeat pythons, and wolves can be invincible. No matter how strong a person is, only by integrating into the team can he exert his greatest strength. Backed by the strength of the team, a single busyness will not become a drop in the ocean. Only in this way can we get to the point, and everyone's busyness can be condensed into a sea of Wang Yang, dousing all the busy flames. If you have been to West Point, you will find the words on the wall of the West Point Military Academy Gymnasium: Today, in the playground of friendship, we sow seeds; Tomorrow, on the battlefield, we will reap the fruits of victory. The times need heroes and great teams.
The development of enterprises depends not only on "material" resources, but also on "human" resources. Now is the era of knowledge economy, and talents are the most important. It can be said that the value of talent is greater than everything.
49. Find out your core goal. As I just told you, finding your core desire is what you want to achieve most. Once your core goal is achieved, your other goals will be achieved one after another. This is the so-called core goal. Once you set a core goal and work towards it, your big goal will be easier to achieve. This is the real key to setting goals.
50. He doesn't know you well and doesn't trust you very much. You try to please him and say something profound to him. Even if the opinion is adopted, the trial result is not so wonderful. He must suspect that you deliberately played a trick on him and let him fall for it. Even if the trial results are very good, it may not increase your goodwill. It is best not to talk.
5 1, around the big goal, set small goals at each stage-this is the bull's-eye you have to project every day.
52. Drop a nail and break a shoe; Broke a shoe and a horse; Fold a horse and hurt a knight; Wounded a knight and lost a battle; Lost a battle and lost a country. In our life, we are entangled in countless details, which make our life full of flesh and blood. Don't let us fail because of carelessness.
53. Whether in life or in the workplace, people must be enterprising, and if they are not satisfied, they will have motivation. However, every time you are eager to try, you might as well calm down and make a risk assessment of another life, and then find the path that suits you best.
54. The personality of women in the workplace is too hot. Such people often pay the price for their impulses, while those who are too quiet and introverted often suffer from dumb losses. Women in the workplace in the new era must combine fiery personality with quiet personality.
Young people have just left society, so they should learn to do more and talk less. The more you do, the more you know, and every little makes a mickle, and you have much more experience in the workplace than others. When you climb to where you want to climb, you have a solid foundation. You won't climb up casually like others, and it won't take long, but because of your poor ability, you are not qualified for your climbing position, and you will soon fall down.
56. Love your job. Doing things, things and feelings are two sides of the same body. If you just do things without interest, it will become a chore. Who wants to do it? Just for love, you become exhausted and worthless. Who wants to do it? Doing a good job is both valuable and interesting, with a happy work and a happy life. How to make boring work interesting requires us to pay attention to our work. Love is the greatest teacher.
57. Don't be an empty talker, be a giant in action.
58. Treat the boss as a customer: the customer sells products there and the boss sells himself to you. What is the difference between good and bad in the workplace? It is even more inappropriate for a boss to judge by quality. Only fair or not. You work for him, contribute your time and energy, and he gives you resources and opportunities for personal development. The two sides exchange equally, as long as the transaction is fair.
59. There is performance pressure every month, often working overtime, working 14 hours a day, with no rest time at all, which seriously affects health. You know, overtime is a common thing in the workplace, but this kind of high-load overtime that seriously exceeds the standard is bound to affect the health of employees.
60. The workplace is a big stage for life. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, you will become hostile to others if you are not careful. This hostile state will not only bring you great psychological pressure, but also affect your work mood and even reduce your work performance.
6 1. Equality between men and women is legally realized. Women can get rid of the shackles of housewives and apply for jobs in the social workplace like men. Working women are professional women and should enjoy the same treatment as men, but there are still many problems of discrimination against women in reality.
62. I didn't do well in Chinese, so I studied more. I went to a bad school, so I started my internship early. It doesn't matter to me. I just do well in my work. Because, I remember grandpa's words, go out as early as possible when you are far away. In the workplace, you must leave before others.
63. If you want to make a difference in the workplace, open your heart! Communicate with people sincerely, do things seriously, and sincerely wish people around you success. When your strength and team are twisted into a rope, you will be like a duck to water.
64. Cooperative entrepreneurship also requires that partners can be suitable for each other. The so-called suitable for each other does not mean that you must invest as much as you want, but that you should cooperate with people with the same quality regardless of your moral quality and personal quality.
65. I was very moved by an activity before the internal training of Yongkang Riyue Trading Co., Ltd., and I was deeply impressed by the intention of General Manager Jeff and his sincere support and recognition for every employee. Praise may be limited, but love for the team is sincere. Use the questionnaire, speak freely, brainstorm, gather wisdom, solve the problems existing in the enterprise, unite the team and promote the development of the enterprise, and the participants will have prizes.
66. About the length of probation period, salary during probation period, compensation for resignation during probation period, insurance premium paid during probation period, etc. , should be understood. Social insurance is an essential treatment for employees, so on this issue, new recruits on probation must not be vague.
67. Everyone wants to fully understand the target of communication. However, there is always a certain distance between people, especially between hearts. If you want to know each other, you can start from other aspects, such as the way the other person treats people, or you can get to know this person comprehensively.
68. One of the means to integrate into the workplace environment is to learn basic etiquette knowledge. There are rules in the workplace, and politeness alone is not enough. In every word and deed, every move must conform to the workplace norms. Instrument is a broader concept that constitutes an image, including language, expression, behavior, environment, habits and so on.
It seems that everyone in this world wears a mask, so as to protect themselves in a chaotic and complicated society. It's not that people don't want to show their true colors, but they have to. So we should learn to see through people's masks and see the sincerity of others.
70. Judgment ability is a pair of penetrating eyes in the process of communication, which can make keen observation and thorough analysis, and comprehensively consider various factors. With this ability, you can communicate with ease and finally win the success of communication.
7 1. Today is your boss's birthday, or an opportunity to congratulate him. You'd better not give a gift alone, but prepare a generous gift with your colleagues in the company, so as not to be too eye-catching and not to attract office gossip.
72. No matter how good a friend is, he should settle accounts on the bright side. Don't think that settling accounts will destroy their friendship. If you don't know money clearly, it is often the reason for the breakdown of friendship.
There is a famous saying in psychology: a person should be "born" three times in his life. The first time, it was the combination of sperm and eggs, and life was born; The second time, from the mother to the ground, become an independent individual; For the third time, I walked into my heart, got to know my true self, took full responsibility for my thoughts and actions, and embarked on the life path of "being led by me".
74. Our heart is crystal water at first. It took a long time to discover that there was always painful dust falling. No glass of water is spotless, it depends on how you use your intelligence and wisdom to filter the impurities in your life. If we continue to stir and let the scum rise, the pain will fill our spirit. It is better to let the dust settle slowly. Only in this way can we make every day as clear as possible.
75. It's a good deal for you to buy a box lunch in 6.8 yuan. Some people bought 70-cent steamed bread on the roadside and swallowed it in a hurry. You get up at eight o'clock to read, and you feel very diligent. When I went to Weibo, I found that my former classmates were already faced with heavy work at eight o'clock. You make up lessons on Saturday and feel very tired. You just know on the phone that many friends have been working overtime for a month. Honey, you really haven't suffered enough and haven't worked hard enough.
76. You should work hard. Work may not be as fast as love, but at least you can have food and a house to live in, which uncertain love can't give. I think many women will agree with this view with both hands. So, work hard for yourself.
77. Minimize contact with people who are withdrawn, sow discord, grumble and have a negative attitude.
78. The world is not in the hands of those who scoff, but in the hands of those who can stand ridicule and criticism and keep moving forward. Every time you are laughed at and looked down upon by others, it will inspire your efforts, make you grow into what you like and live a life that you don't want to exchange with anyone.
79. Life is a journey forward. Those who see more scenery on the way forward and walk more on the bumpy road are the values of living in the world.
80. A wise man works happily, but a fool complains and does it anyway. When we can't change the outcome of things, we must learn to change our mentality.
8 1, I believe that no matter how bumpy the road ahead is, as long as we seize today, we will taste the sweetness of life in our struggle sooner or later. It is better to seize every minute of your life than to waste a month or a year!
82. The workplace is to take the next step, not to escape the wrong step.
83. I made it for you When someone uses this sentence, its subtext is: all responsibilities, as well as bad ones, will also be borne by you. If someone tells you this, you must know the inside story and not be kidnapped.
84. No study = self-pay reduction. Extensive study, various forms and contents, can be learned anytime and anywhere. Get into the habit of thinking about everything, and you will get something if you think more. Seize every opportunity to improve your ability. Learning ability is an essential ability for project personnel.
85. Don't just think that it can be achieved in theory.
86. I'm glad you think so, and I'm glad to meet you, because you are a person who knows how to cooperate. In this workplace, only people who know how to cooperate have a chance to survive and are worthy of communication.
87. When setting goals, we should set "targets beyond our ability". This is my opinion. To set a difficult goal that I am "incompetent" at present and "I want to achieve this goal at some time in the future", I must make such a determination.
88. In fact, those amazing great achievements are almost the result of the continuous accumulation of diligence by extremely ordinary people.
89. If you feel that there is no progress for the time being, try to break through yourself. Job-hopping, job rotation, job change, study, smoking, drinking, dancing, swimming, etc. Do something that you haven't done before or for a long time. If you don't make stagnant water, there will be living water.
90. There is no such thing as happiness or misfortune. Learn to bear it slowly. Learn not to complain about sadness. Yes, bear with it. I will try my best. I will return to the initial indifference, goodbye, self-righteous youth, goodbye, and the beauty of imagination. You can only smile when the reality tells you that you have to face it.