What's the matter? When you say this sentence, it seems that you are not a member of this family.

Now that you have married into this family, you are a member of it. After marriage, you should live a good life with others, so that you can share weal and woe. This is your responsibility as a daughter-in-law.

If you say such a thing, it will not only make your mother-in-law's family feel strange, but also make them feel that you are ignorant. If you are a reasonable family, even if they don't care about you, they will be angry at your words.

Disputes about buying a house after marriage whose name is written on the house ownership certificate has always been a controversial topic in family relations. Who pays for the house, how much, and whose name should be written on the real estate license are all very sensitive topics.

I have been there before and had such an experience.

But fortunately, when I bought a house, I didn't have a conflict with my wife because of whose name to write on the real estate license. Because we bought the house in full, and my parents took the money. I bought a house before my wife and I met. Later, when we got married, my name was always on the property certificate. My wife lives in a house, and she doesn't care about me because her name is not written in the room book.

So, when I saw something with a similar title, I was still a little surprised.

In the title, the daughter-in-law's words completely turned herself into a person outside this family. As we all know, she will spend the rest of her life under the same roof with her husband. They will raise their children together and take care of everything at home together. If the daughter-in-law lives in this family with such an attitude, their future family life will inevitably be contradictory.

Daughter-in-law's influence on family. Her words cast aside all sense of responsibility.

Will she really not have any intersection with her in-laws in this family in the future?

She and her husband have children, and when the children are not big, she will come back to work to take care of them. Doesn't she have to fall on her in-laws?

If separated, like two families, there is no contact with each other. In-laws don't take their children, and she doesn't go to their homes. Her husband will definitely not accept this life.

The relationship between husband and wife is established in mutual tolerance. When two people are together, they should support each other and share the responsibility. When her in-laws bought a house, they didn't say anything, so she left all the stress behind. When she is in trouble, can her in-laws and husbands not help her?

What's the point of such a family?

The importance of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law In a family, the relationship between husband and wife is very important, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is equally important.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, it is just like a biological mother and daughter; If they don't get along well, they will be in the same boat.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and the family is harmonious and beautiful. This kind of life is called happiness. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and they always quarrel over trivial matters, so life is not happy at all.

Who doesn't yearn for a happy life? Only a fool would say what cool thin said when her mother-in-law said she wanted to buy a house.

A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will affect the relationship between husband and wife. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is so bad that there is no turning back, then your marriage is likely to be red.

You are good to your mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law will be good to you. A good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a happy husband, working extra hard outside the home, and going home is good for you. This is the proper performance of a healthy family.

Empathy: If you are not filial to other people's parents, how can you let your husband be filial to your parents? Therefore, filial piety to in-laws is actually for the sake of parents. On the other hand, you may have a sister-in-law or sister-in-law. Do you want them to do the same with your parents?

When you marry your husband, you will have children. You are not only the parents of children, but also their best teacher. If you don't know how to be filial to your parents-in-law, how should you feel when your son grows up and your daughter-in-law says the same thing to you?

Conclusion: Be a virtuous wife. My mother-in-law has plans to buy a house. You should think this is a good thing. A house is a burden, a responsibility and a harbor for family. With a house, you can shelter from the wind and rain, and you can stop and rest when you are tired.

The monthly mortgage is 4,000 yuan, which is not a few. The whole family will share it, but one person will bear it 1000. The family walked hand in hand and walked through the storm to welcome the rainbow after the rain.

Everyone has experienced hardships, and when someone helps and many people share it, the burden on their shoulders will be much lighter. Only by going through the storm together, being indomitable in the face of difficulties, and bravely taking responsibility can we sublimate the feelings between people in a family.