A classmate dropped out of school almost two weeks after school started. No one in the class knew at that time. I don't even remember what this classmate looks like. I heard that he went to work in the south, because he thought it was a waste of time to go to college!
The next year, this classmate resumed his studies, and he transferred to the class next door. He was also called to the class party. He said that working in the south was tiring and doing the same job every day was boring, so he came to school. It is still useful to learn something seriously!
I think the biggest reason for this situation is that I don't understand. I didn't realize what I came here for, what's the use of going to college, why I came here, and what do you want from college?
For a given fact, knowing what you want in advance, and then taking action, will be more motivated, have a clearer goal, know where to work hard, use light and heavy, will be easier to get, and will not get lost. So, calm down, give yourself some quiet time, think about what we really want from college, have a clear understanding, have a clear goal, know what to do next and when to do things.
Why did you come to college? What's the use?
1.？ ? To put it bluntly, going to college is to learn professional knowledge, get a diploma, find a good job in the future and make money easily. No matter whether there is anyone in your family or not, who you are, since you came to the university, you are still a student, and students also have their own jobs, that is, studying, going to college and having a major. Why is it valuable for college students to go out to the society? Because they have professional knowledge, professionalism and professional skills! What do you do in college? I am studying professional knowledge. First of all, you have to learn the knowledge of this major well, otherwise it will be very painful to give you a top-notch job even after graduation. Even if I quit my major, I know an industry!
2.？ ? University is a transition, and sooner or later we have to go out and enter the society. My brothers and sisters say that the university is a small society, so it is impossible for us to swim in a small fish pond. What's it like to swim in the sea? Help, help, at that time, there was no 1 10 and no sos. We still had to drink a few mouthfuls of seawater, and we were so anxious that we might even lose our lives. Really. Watching others swim, you will envy, complain, be jealous, look at yourself and work hard to save your life. If you don't handle it well, you will get mental illness.
Therefore, in college, take the initiative to participate and learn to "swim", so as to be true and experience the truth. All the onlookers live in their own fantasies, and the person who longs for that kind of "swimming" is himself!
3.？ ? Find yourself, know yourself, know yourself, because I don't know what I want or like, so I'm confused and at a loss. Like a pupa, I can't see any light in the darkness and fog. Only by constantly waving limbs, scratching and stamping feet, finding the weakness of the shell, tearing a crack and squeezing out our bodies can we soar and sing the highest sound of life.
Integrate into life, participate in society, take a down-to-earth walk, toss and turn, exercise, know yourself, cultivate yourself, know and think about the world of life, tear open the dark cracks and see the light of life.
If, if nothing is done, the silkworm chrysalis does nothing, it will always be in the dark, tied behind its back, lying quietly in the dark and gradually losing its vitality.
4.？ ? I think there is another important gain in going to college, that is, learning to live and learn to live actively! When you look at life after graduation, there are mostly only two situations: going to work and getting off work, earning money at work, living and entertaining after work or chopping wood. That's life. An ideal lifestyle is: happy work at work, happy life after work, and fun to think of. This is a problem. Do you have the ability to live happily after work?
Cai Lan said, "If a man sees a wild flower and a beautiful duckweed on his way home from work, he will pick it up and put it in a bottle, then your wife will definitely love you. It's interesting to think about it. "
Maybe you will say that I am exhausted after a day's work, and I want to go home and play games to relax, so that I can have time to look at flowers and grass! Maybe I'm inside, I don't think so, but if I jump out to see how boring this life should be, playing games and reading novels after work, I'm sure I want to live like this! ?
No one is stress-free and carefree. Even babies learn to live under pressure, learn how to live happily, take the initiative to live with quality, cultivate their own abilities, know the taste of life, discover the beauty in life and experience the happiness of the moment. This is a lovely place, lovely, lovely and worthy of love!
After graduation, some people will smile with flowers in their hands and feel full of harvest. glad you came, some people will feel sad with empty hands. Going to college is a waste of time! Some people are determined, and ta has found the way to go. Anyway, I graduated.
But now, college, since I'm here, give me a hug!
In addition, it is not difficult for a university to be economically independent, and it is afraid that it will not dare without courage. Schools have various scholarships, student loans, work-study programs, and holidays, and they can also do some profitable things. The authors of major websites have written about this, and there are many, you can learn from it, but don't miss being a student's main business because of making money.