1. There are only two kinds of people in the office, the protagonist and the walk-on.

In the workplace, if you want to be relaxed and don't want to climb up, you can only be a walk-on for life. The disadvantage of being a walk-on is that you go first to die, and you have no credit at all, so layoffs should be considered first. The current workplace is by no means a place to raise lazy people. If you want to survive better than others, you have to be the protagonist and let others do it. You can't step on others' shoulders, so you can only be others' cushion.

2. Everyone should aim high, even if it means destroying the world.

Ambition is the first condition for being a leading role. In the workplace, if you don't have a goal, you can't climb up aggressively, and in the end you can only become a walk-on and become a victim of others. So whether you destroy the world or become the richest man, you must be ambitious and aim at it.

3. Don't be fooled by ideals. Ideals are needed, but not others' ideals, but your own.

When lofty ideals are mentioned, some people will think of corporate goals, corporate culture and impassioned speeches by the boss. Forget that, the boss's ideal is only the boss's, but in the workplace, you are independent. Keep a clear head and don't be fooled easily. No matter what other people's ideals are, we should firmly remember our own ambitions, which is the foundation of life.

4. If you really have no ambition, then fight for money.

Everyone comes home from work sometimes. If it wasn't for money, who would be the official? So making money is the main pursuit of people. A dangerous situation in the workplace is that the boss uses ideals to win people over and wants people to work for nothing. But if you really want to work without money, then you are worthless. Since you are worthless, what is the need to exist? Money is the only thing that measures your value. If you really want nothing, then fight for making money.

5. You may not be smart, but you must not be careless.

It's the same in the workplace. You may not be smart, but you must not be careless. People who are not smart are clumsy at most and do things worse. In the workplace, this is not a big sin. But if you are not careful, you will violate the interests of others at any time and commit the workplace taboo of offending people. By then, I don't even know why I wore it. Keep your mouth shut, talk less about your colleagues when you can have an affair, and don't speak ill of others when you can say good things.

6. The boss will know everything you say. So think about what to say and what not to say.

don't expect your boss not to hear what you say in private. It is true that the boss can know everything. It's exactly the same in the workplace. As long as you're not talking to yourself alone, you have to worry that the person you're talking to will spread the word. And experience tells us that every comment about the company will eventually reach the boss. So when you talk to anyone, you should think about what to say and what not to say. Never say what you shouldn't say, but shut up if you can.

7. It is necessary to have a heart-to-heart talk with the boss occasionally, but it should be targeted.

remember, having a long talk is a means, not really making you say everything. Occasionally heart-to-heart, say something irrelevant, can make the boss feel that you are caring. In fact, no boss has ever really confided in you. Don't hand over your heart when your eyes are full of tears. The one who is betrayed is always the one who has a heart-to-heart relationship.

8. Playing dumb is always the easiest way to make mistakes.

Jin Yong once said that behind his old ears, he can hear what he should hear, but he can't hear what he shouldn't hear. When someone asks you to take a stand to your face and choose the direction of things, no matter how you choose, it is wrong. Then playing dumb is the best choice, which is the most difficult way to make mistakes when there is no choice. Don't worry about being stupid. Even if everyone can see that you are being stupid, they still can't do anything about you. What's really unlucky is those who make it clear. With these walk-on sacrifices, it's not your turn.

9. People who think of themselves as the smartest are often the dumbest.

In the workplace, you always think of yourself as the smartest person, and it must be a walk-on life. A really clever master is a wise man who is foolish. He should be smart when he is smart, but he should not play dumb when he is smart.

1. You must have a backer, but more reliable than a backer is to make yourself valuable.

Therefore, in the workplace, it is necessary to have a good relationship with the bosses, and it is very important to find a good backer for yourself. And more importantly, let yourself have enough value, so that every boss must win you over.

11. You are the boss's person, but the boss is not necessarily your person. This meaning must be understood.

When a boss tells you that you belong to him, you must know clearly in your heart that the boss is not your own. You are his and he is his own. When your business has something to do with the interests of your boss, they will not hesitate to betray you. Remember at all times that you are your own and only you can be responsible for yourself. Don't believe your boss's pretence to be close, it will be a trap at any time.

12. The boss said that he was very relieved of you, but the fact may be just the opposite.

if your boss is really at ease with you, he doesn't need to mention it often at all. True trust is expressed through actions. When the boss is willing to do things that harm people and things that struggle in the workplace with you, that is the performance of trust. When your boss verbally says he is at ease with you, you should be careful instead. It is very likely that you have done something to make your boss suspect that you are unfaithful.

13. Think from the boss's standpoint and do things from your own standpoint.

When your boss trusts you and asks you to do something, you must keep an account in mind, and don't do everything foolishly. You should consider the problem from the position of your boss and understand why your boss should do it and what he can achieve. Then choose from your own standpoint, some do it, and some shirk it. Even a seemingly loyal person like Yu Zecheng can't do everything. Choose what is in your own interest to do, and avoid what is not in your interest. Please your boss with what you have done, and let your boss know that you have done your best with what you have not done.

14. When the boss suddenly collapses, don't panic, finish the task alone, and then find a new backer.

In the workplace, it often happens that the boss suddenly collapses. If you happen to meet, don't panic, finish your work alone, and do it beautifully and brilliantly. And this is the capital for you to settle down in the future, so you can find a new backer. Again, you must make yourself valuable, which is more important than having someone to protect you.

15. Do things well and work until you are old.

there is no contradiction between the words "do a good job and work until you are old" and "make yourself valuable". Value is reflected in the key point, and it is a crucial place that will suddenly erupt. When it doesn't matter, especially when you do something that has no merit but hard work, don't do it too well. If you do well forever, you will keep doing it. If people think that you can only do mediocre work, even if you are exhausted, you will never climb up.

16. There must be shortcomings.

In the workplace, there must be shortcomings. A perfect person without shortcomings will be hated and kept at a respectful distance. If even your boss keeps you at a distance, the road to the workplace will be dangerous. Therefore, smart people will deliberately expose some shortcomings, especially those that are irrelevant, and let the boss think that he can hold you. That is the safest situation. But the shortcomings must not be fatal, but they can't be your real shortcomings. They can only be amateur programs talked about during the affair, and they are more than friendly with people. If you want to blackmail them, there is no way.

17. People half a level above you are often the most dangerous, while those at the same level are natural enemies.

if you already have a job, you must feel the same way. Because people half a level higher than you have a sense of crisis, they are afraid that you may be on an equal footing with them at any time, so they will attack you if they have the opportunity. Regardless of the senior level or the first level, they are all bosses, and it is extremely dangerous for them to give you little shoes. People at the same level are inevitable enemies. As long as your boss is not a fool, he will definitely provoke his men to fight.

18. Nine out of ten sentences must be true, so that a lie will be believed.

in the workplace, nine truths and one falsehood are also the best rules. A man full of address unknown can't be trusted by his boss. Only those who are loyal and hardly tell lies can cheat everyone at the most critical moment. You have to be an honest man, and an honest man can win the trust of others. Without the trust of others, there will be no lies at the crucial moment. Lying only needs to be at the most critical moment, if you can say less, you can say less. Everyone should have heard the story of the wolf coming.

19. Treat every lie as a matter of life, so that you won't feel guilty when you lie.

The key difficulty in the workplace is how to get past one's psychological barrier. Some people are not born to lie, and they feel guilty when they lie. At this time, you need to remember your ambition. When a person has aspirations, ideals and beliefs, he can do anything. Yu Zecheng lied, killed people and did many bad things in order to complete the task. This is entirely because he has faith to support, so he will not feel guilty. And you should also remember that every lie may be life-threatening. If you can't cross your heart, you may not realize your ideal. If you think so, will you still feel guilty? What are the survival rules of the workplace 2

If you leave campus and enter the society, the society is a "workplace", which will teach you a lot, while the workplace is like a small society, and every day in the company is a learning experience.

how to learn the "survival rule" in the workplace, these must be remembered.

It is inevitable to make mistakes in the face of criticism in the workplace, but how to face criticism is important, and the attitude of handling it afterwards is more important.

1. In the face of criticism, the appropriate first reaction is "no hurry to explain, no retort".

2. Learn to ignore "comments" and attach great importance to "criticism".

3. Get into the habit every day, or at the latest every week, think about your problems and troubles with the heaviest adjectives, and be honest with yourself. When criticized, you will feel that everything is still under control.

4. Many criticisms occur because of misunderstandings. Therefore, firstly, establish the trust on the emotional level, then clarify the facts, and then eliminate the misunderstanding. These three steps can solve most of the relationship problems caused by criticism.

5. when criticized, the focus of thinking should be "where should I start to solve the problem", not "right".

About personal image management The workplace is different from life, but image is very important because it represents your personal label. Although you don't have to dress up and wear a suit and tie when you go to work, you must ensure that you are clean and decent in any occasion.

1. If you watch two American TV dramas in the workplace like Suits carefully, you will know where the red line of image management lies.

2. Find out your "basic image" as soon as possible: everyone will have an optimal dressing pattern and fix it.

3. Cleanliness is the minimum standard. For professionals who work and live in modern cities, cleanliness is defined as taking a bath every day, changing clothes and polishing shoes every day.

4. You are what you look like.

5. Please look at the friend who looks the best and recommend the hairdresser, and then make friends with the hairdresser. One of the criteria for a good hair stylist is that he will give you the simplest solution rather than the most expensive one.

About major choices

At work, Wonderful has to face choices, especially as the management, decision-making level, and the boss of the company. However, no matter what the result is, remember that the decision is your own, others can only help you find a way, but the final road still depends on yourself.

1. Choice is greater than ability. Some people call this "fate". In fact, it is a long-neglected ability: the ability to quickly make the best choice at a critical moment.

2. The optimal choice is the choice to maximize the individual's long-term value. Paying too much attention to the immediate interests is often a big pit in life.

3. Those who achieve great things don't struggle. Once you decide, go all out.

4. No matter what advice others give you, remember that the decision is your own. Don't rely on others, let alone blame the consequences.

5. You can ask for other people's opinions. But this "others" refers to those whom you sincerely admire and learn from.

about interpersonal relationships, the workplace is a place to test interpersonal relationships. It is very necessary to learn to socialize normally.

1. There is only one kind of benign interpersonal relationship, which is called independence and strong alliance. There has never been such a thing as holding a group to keep warm.

2. Being valuable to others is the premise of establishing a benign interpersonal relationship, even if it only creates a small value temporarily, it is also valuable.

3. Among all relationships, the one with the most positive circulation and the least burden afterwards is the trading relationship. The market is the most cruel but also the most kind.

4. Among all relationships, the most dangerous and destructive one is purely emotional. Therefore, if a relationship wants to develop healthily, it must have the ability to develop from pure emotional feeding to "composite materials".

For example, as far as marriage is concerned, passion is not long-lasting, but both parties can become growth partners or partners with a specific goal. Even as far as parent-child relationship is concerned, cooperative learning partnership can be developed.

5. communicate with people with the heart of Tao.

The success of Bole in the workplace is not only a personal strength, but also a key. If you meet a good leader and a good colleague, your career may develop very smoothly. Anyway, don't forget the Bole who helped you.

1. Noble people are those who give key instructions at critical moments. They have the ability to present the true colors of the world. The road used to be there, but you can't see it without their guidance.

2. They are willing to help you because of their practice, not because of my ability and benefits.

3. The best reward for them is to try to be like them.

4. When you have the opportunity to help others, lower your posture and then lower it, and try not to let the other person feel psychological pressure. After the help, the other party will not mention it, and he will not mention it himself.

5. Be sure to let people see the results of helping you regularly and share the joy and achievements.

Stress management can be said to be a stress concentration camp. Learning to manage your own stress appropriately is also a kind of practice.

1. The pressure is fair. No one who really lives after China's entry into WTO can stay out of it. If you firmly believe this, it is not easy to feel resentful.

2. Workplace stress and life stress cannot be eliminated interchangeably. So don't release the pressure in the wrong place.

3. Stress cannot be replaced and attention can be diverted. When it is unbearable, you can get blood back by brushing for an hour and exercising vigorously for two hours. The problem remains. But you might as well take a breath and come back.

4. Do you have friends who are equal in words? Speaking out may be the most effective way to relieve stress, not because someone can comfort you, but because