The relationship between relatives, although we see that many relatives and friends who have been promoted and made a fortune have neglected their families, most people still care about their families. Actually, this kind of thing is very strange Seeing others being promoted to a higher position or having a bright future will make me feel a little humble.
I think I hope my relatives and friends will have a good life, but I am afraid they will have a good life. I am not in the same class as them at all, and I am gradually alienated. This kind of thing is actually a very embarrassing thing, but it is actually a very small thing, all caused by people's own hearts.
For many people, he is in the apprentice, and he also wants to help his relatives and friends. He never felt that he looked down on his relatives and friends. After all, his blood is full of the same genes.
Many times, people are contradictory creatures. They have grievances or things to say, but they never want to express them. This will deepen the misunderstanding and make your heart resist something.
Now, what we want to say comes from the problem we mentioned above, that is, the misunderstanding between relatives has finally been solved.
Family relationship in the countryside Xiaoying was born in the countryside, and his family conditions are not very good. When she was young, her parents actually spoiled her. But of course, there is still that kind of preference for boys in the countryside, so after her brother was born, almost all the burdens in the family were on her. Because after my brother was born, my mother's body became particularly weak. And she loses her temper very easily and often beats and scolds her. But Xiaoying also thinks that this is a mother's business, so she has provoked the heavy responsibility of cooking at home and has to go to work every day.
Her father is an honest man, but because of her mother's temper, she began to drink behind her back and even beat Xiaoying after drinking, which made Xiaoying feel very painful, so her biggest goal from the bottom of her heart was to leave home.
When Xiaoying was 23 years old, her father introduced her to a blind date with Xiao Chen in a neighboring village. Xiao Chen is a very capable person, but his family is also poor. In order to leave her home, Xiaoying immediately agreed to the marriage, and then married to Xiao Chen's home.
Later, she discovered that the conditions of Chen Jiali Jr. were actually worse than their home. But fortunately, a very hard-working person in a small city goes to work everywhere every year. He works harder than anyone else.
Every year when the farm is busy, Xiao Chen will take his own tools to Xiaoying's house to help, so to outsiders, they all think Xiaoying has married a very good man.
But in fact, her father knew that his daughter was not married well, because the conditions in Chen Xiao's family were so bad that he didn't even dare to buy more meat.
The gap between people is only well said in one sentence, that is, people are not poor and ambitious. Chen Xiao's family has a sister, that is, Xiao Chen's sister, who works very hard. Through her own efforts, she became the only girl in the village who was admitted to the university, and stayed in the provincial capital, doing her favorite job.
After Xiao Chen's sister went out to study, Woody Sakura felt that she and Xiao Chen's sister didn't have too many * * * topics. After returning home for the New Year, Xiaoying just listened quietly to Xiao Chen's sister telling the wonderful story of the city. She felt that there was an insurmountable gap between them.
The night Xiao Chen's sister came back, they played late. Xiaoying has fallen asleep. Half asleep, she heard Xiao Chen's sister talking about him. She thought Xiaoying spoke ill of herself in front of her mother-in-law, so she was very angry and came forward to talk to Xiao Chen's sister.
After this incident, the relationship between Xiaoying and Xiao Chen's sister was even more awkward, and they hardly contacted each other at ordinary times. Xiaoying also believes from the bottom of her heart that Xiao Chen's sister has changed, and now she looks down on her.
Xiaoying's life has become more difficult since their son was born. Xiao Chen had to work elsewhere to support his family. Every year when the farm is busy, if Xiao Chen can't make it back, she can only take her son to work in the fields. She also feels particularly sorry for her son from the bottom of her heart, because she has never let her son celebrate his birthday for so many years.
Xiao Chen's sister settled down in this city. In the second year of marriage, she called her husband and said that Xiao Chen would take Xiaoying and their son to the city to play and attend a birthday party.
Xiaoying felt a little surprised. She thought that Xiao Chen's sister had forgotten them all, but she didn't expect to call and invite them to this city. Xiao Chen was very happy that his sister had a bright future, so he decided to take his wife and children to visit them in the city.
Xiaoying still has some feelings in his heart. She felt that she had never been to the city and was afraid of losing face to her husband.
After going to the city, everything is very happy and prosperous, and my son is also very happy. When having dinner at Xiao Chen's sister's house, Xiao Chen's sister didn't show anything unusual, and the whole family was very happy.
Finally, when she left, Xiao Chen's sister specially packed the remaining cakes for Xiaoying to take home for the children to eat. After returning home, Xiaoying opened the cake and found that in addition to a piece of cake, there was a suicide note of 1000 yuan written by Xiaoying's sister, asking her to buy more delicious food for her children.
Xiaoying burst into tears. She cried and called Xiao Chen's elder sister, saying that your sister-in-law said so, so don't hold a grudge against me. Xiao Chen's sister said, I don't remember what you said. We will always be a family.
People are separated. Sometimes, only by saying what you think can others understand you and be honest with you. Don't let yourself regret not maintaining any relationship.