1, psychological dysfunction: refers to the impairment of cognitive emotion or behavioral function;
2. Personal pain: illness causes personal pain (not completely manic);
3. Atypical or not expected by culture: it is not a typical feature of cultural behavior in this area.
According to your situation, you don't have any psychological obstacles. You just can't take it for a while. If you really can't make up, forget about her. You can think more about her shortcomings and change her image in your heart. You will be more relaxed.
There is also more participation in group activities, physical exercise and so on. Get out of the shadows as soon as possible.