Don't let the left hand know what the right hand is doing. Say the Bible, the New Testament and Matthew.

When Jesus preached and preached charity in Galilee, he said, "Be careful not to do good in front of others, so that others will see you on purpose, so that you will not be rewarded by the Father. Therefore, when you give alms, don't deliberately get glory, as those hypocrites do in synagogues and streets. In that case, they have got their reward. When giving alms, don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, but do good deeds in secret. Your's heavenly father will certainly repay your if he watches in the dark. "

Later, some people said that what the left hand did should be known to the right hand, and some netizens disagreed. It is true that the public is right and the old woman is right. In fact, whether the left hand should be known to the right hand depends on the matter itself.

I helped a girl when I was teaching in Hongan County. Her name is Ying, a very common name, just like her.

Ying and I come from the same village. My mother died in a car accident when she was very young. My father was devastated and never came back from the world. She lives alone with her grandfather, who is hard of hearing and elderly. Accustomed to the days of poverty, she silently propped up her stormy home with tender shoulders.

English happened to be in my class in junior high school. Her thin face and big eyes look like malnutrition at first glance. Although the clothes are old and ill-fitting, they are clean. After a period of observation and talking in English, I found that she was very sensitive and self-abased. No wonder she, a little person, has taken on too many things that she shouldn't, and at the same time she has lost something that everyone thinks is normal, such as the love of her parents.

I began to try to help her, but I couldn't hurt her self-esteem. A kind-hearted person has been subsidizing English and helping her pay tuition and living expenses. Well-intentioned people also wrote to English to encourage her to study hard and realize her dream as soon as possible. Ying was also very moved. She found a place to talk among thousands of people, and good people were helping her. She gradually became cheerful. Ying also often writes back, writing down her thanks and dreams, and repeatedly saying that she should study hard and repay the society. I forwarded the letters and replies. Every time I see a letter from a kind person, English is particularly excited. Yes, it's good that someone cares and someone loves.

Through hard work, Ying was successfully admitted to high school, and good people continued to help her until Ying was admitted to an ideal university. With scholarships and student loans for poor college students, Britain no longer has to worry about life. But she still often receives letters from good people. At this time, it is no longer writing a paper, but sending an email. From life to dreams, from the country to the world, Ying and good-hearted people talk about everything in their emails, which shows that she is ambitious and can inspire words to give directions. After graduating from a British university, I successfully found my ideal job, and I have a smooth road and keep harvesting wonderful life. Later, the good-hearted person received an email from Ying. Ying told the good-hearted person that she was married, found her own happiness, and finally found the feeling of home. The good man looked at the short and happy words, and tears filled his eyes.

The letters written by Ying to good people are all in my drawer, and the emails sent by Ying are also lying in my mailbox, so I can't bear to delete them. Speaking of which, you may know that the kind person is me.

Up to now, Ying doesn't know about it, and I'm not going to let her know. What the left hand does, the right hand does not know. Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in her hand, and she will be happy.

Our unit often organizes to help poor households in the village, planting trees, cleaning, building roads and digging ponds in the village.

I remember one time, we brought broom tools and began to clean up every corner when we arrived in the village. There are not many people in the village. Most of them are watching at the door and talking from time to time.

"It's another show. Take a photo and leave. " A sister-in-law has a loud voice and shouts while eating melon seeds.

"With this leisure time, it is better to help us grow peanuts." What a young daughter-in-law said caused a burst of laughter. I also heard that mahjong was constantly playing in shops along the road. Now the people's indifference to cadres has reached such a point that the relationship between cadres and the masses is quite tense.

Sweep it almost every half month, and pull the garbage from several cars with a tricycle every time. When the local people get used to it, no one will watch. Garbage is littered everywhere, even in front of their house. Because someone comes to sweep, they treat us as cleaners, and it's free.

Our work captain is a rural person, simple and honest, which really can't stand it. Every family comes to the door and tells them that we are resident cadres in the county to help them beautify and purify the environment in the village, not for show, nor are they voluntary cleaners.

"Uncle and aunt, everyone cleans the snow in front of the door. At least you have to clean the door often? " Captain's words are always grounded. "I am also in the countryside, and the rural environment is poor, but we can't just rely on others, we have to rely on all of us."

We clean up, clean up the environment in the village, and tell the local villagers to do it themselves and have plenty of food and clothing.

If we don't tell them, they think this is what we should do, and it has nothing to do with them.

Later, everyone in the village began to do sanitation together. At least the front and back of the house are much cleaner than before, and the garbage is put in the trash can. Clean heart, clean village.

There are many such things between my daughter and me.

My daughter has a weak sense of economy since childhood and has no concept of money. If she needs it, she will reach out and ask us for it.

Once, we saw a story about a child standing on his own feet on TV. I took the opportunity to encourage my daughter to sell some magazines at home, and all the change was hers. I didn't expect my daughter to readily agree.

The first time I went to sell books, it didn't go well. Not many people buy it, and the daughter is more formal. The second time, my daughter wanted to back down. I encouraged her and cheered her up.

"I am very lucky today. A brother bought a dozen copies at once. " As soon as my daughter came back, she said happily to us. She turned over a pile of hair tickets and counted them several times, laughing like a penny fan. She said that the feeling of making money is too great to spend. Of course, she also knows how hard it is for her parents to earn money. She will never know that my brother who bought more than a dozen books is my child care. Children need more encouragement as they grow up.

My daughter has the habit of throwing things about, such as throwing socks away after taking a shower, and looking for them in the closet when she wants to wear them. I washed her socks several times and helped her fold the quilt, but I have to tell her that she made it herself. I'm just demonstrating. Later, after she got up, she folded the quilt by herself and often washed socks, which has formed a habit. If I keep doing it silently and don't tell her, she must feel that my parents deserve it.

Children are not lazy, but our parents lack communication and guidance.

It is a kind of morality for the left hand not to let the right hand know; It is wisdom to let the right hand know what the left hand has done.

Therefore, whether the left hand should let the right hand know about it depends on the facts.