My boyfriend and I are both stable and anxious to get married. Once I asked my boyfriend, will you add my name when you buy a house? My boyfriend told me seriously that he would add my name once he got married.

Now the problem is coming, and the boyfriend buying a house is on the agenda. I specifically consulted the relevant policies. You can't add your spouse's name before the house loan is paid off, because the bank doesn't allow it. I'm not calm now. Although I didn't give my boyfriend the down payment, I borrowed the down payment. After marriage, I need to pay back the money with him, and I need to pay back the loan for the next 30 years with him. Why can't I write my name on the house?

I told my boyfriend what I thought, and he asked me to pay a down payment of 50 thousand so that I could write my name. Knowing that I have no savings is deliberately giving me a problem. My heart broke with him because of the house.

The best friend around me warned me with his own experience that he must write his own name when buying a house, otherwise in case of a quarrel between husband and wife after marriage, the man blurted out: the house is mine, get out. What face does that woman have to stay there? After decades of sharing weal and woe, paying off the mortgage is not worth thinking about.