I know that man, and he and I can be considered the same family, but the relationship is not particularly close, so many things are known after the event.
The conditions in the south are not good. He is not tall and quite fat, giving the impression that he is a lazy man. I didn't find anyone at the age of 26, and I didn't find anyone during my college years. I asked him not to worry, and asked his parents, who always thought that his son was handsome and young, and it was only a matter of minutes to find a partner.
At the age of 28, his parents began to worry and were busy arranging various matchmakers. He was not in a hurry. He pretended that he was excellent and didn't care, and the blind date process was relatively smooth, because the conditions in the south were ok. There is a facade house in the center of the town and a grocery store has been opened. He also made a lot of money and saved a little money in the past.
The woman agreed and tentatively began to talk with the south. At first, they were fine. They say they can be seen wandering in the street every day. After talking for about two months, they got married because the woman was pregnant.
But it changed as soon as I got married. The first sign is that they can't be seen wandering in the street. Later, I heard from the woman that it was because of the man. Being single for such a long time, the South has developed various bad habits, turned itself into an out-and-out otaku, and spent all her time playing computer games after marriage.
Basically, he didn't go out. The first week of marriage, I heard that it cost 1 0,000. They didn't earn this 10 thousand yuan themselves. It's all wedding gifts from relatives and red envelopes from his parents. After spending this 10 thousand yuan, he still feels dissatisfied. He forced his daughter-in-law to take out the dowry money, and her daughter-in-law quarreled with him. He even wanted to rob him because he had to have money to buy game equipment.
The most serious time was when his daughter-in-law wanted to jump off a building, and he was stunned at that time. After all, there are still his children in his belly, and he may make various vows to save his wife's life. Otherwise, he still doesn't correct himself, doesn't look for a job all day, stays at home, and feels that he has found a daughter-in-law, and his life is complete and there is no progress at all.
Finally, the woman's parents also dismissed him. In fact, they all want their daughter to divorce, but what about the baby inside? You've only been married for less than a month?
In the end, she didn't persist for a month, and the woman gave up completely. Even the flesh and blood child couldn't get it back. We all advised them to cherish it. On further consideration, they still can't stay. Just got married for more than 20 days and got divorced. The child heard about the miscarriage. It's a pity for the child.
This is also the shortest marriage I have ever seen. If there is love, I suggest marrying love. A marriage without love is doomed to be a backwater.