Some people think it's better to find another wife. There is no need to get a license for remarriage. After all, there are many disputes after getting a license to remarry, children's dissatisfaction, and each other is old, and they have all experienced years, so they may not get along well.
Everyone hopes that the wife he is looking for can be congenial to himself and spend the lonely days in his later years hand in hand.
When people get old, their children get married and leave themselves, so they don't have to fight for survival. The rest of the day is to enjoy life. It is really a blessing for the elderly to meet like-minded partners and live together in their later years.
Aunt Qin, 62, said that she has a house and a pension. She has worked with 65-year-old Lao Zhang for three years. Even if she is calculated by him, she still has true feelings. Lao Zhang takes good care of three meals a day at home and often takes her out to play.
I am 62 years old and my institution is retired. I have a three-bedroom apartment 120 flat, a scooter and a monthly pension of more than 5000 yuan. My only daughter has a family and children in the south, and her wife has been gone for seven years.
When my wife just left, I felt that life was gloomy. I can't cook, clean and even operate the simplest washing machine. I am spoiled by my wife and can't take care of myself. This is what my daughter said.
In those extremely depressed days, my good sister dragged me to the Square Taiji Team to study and practice Tai Ji Chuan. Perhaps in the ethereal Zen, in the infinite realm of Tai Chi, my mind was slowly repaired.
Women retired at home, lovelorn for more than 30 years, how haggard their hearts are. After practicing Tai Ji Chuan for three years, I came out slowly.
I met Lao Zhang who is three years older than me in the Tai Ji Chuan team. I didn't know he had no wife. Until three years ago, my good friend asked me how Lao Zhang was. At that time, I knew nothing. What does it matter to me how he is?
My friend said, I think you two are a good match, and he doesn't have a wife. Wouldn't it be nice for you two to live together?
It took me a long time to agree to be with Lao Zhang. At that time, Lao Zhang would often bring me some snacks made by him, or stew ribs or something.
I think it suits my taste very much. Once, I invited Lao Zhang to my house for tea. Lao Zhang doesn't drink much tea. Help me clean the kitchen, toilet and windows.
I didn't expect that Lao Zhang was as careful as my wife and could say some humorous words, which benefited me a lot. We soon established a relationship.
Lao Zhang has a son who has just been married for a few years. His grandmother takes care of her little grandson, and Lao Zhang gives them some subsidies every month.
When I told Lao Zhang that I wanted to live together, Lao Zhang told me about his financial situation first, fearing that I would be wronged. He said that he has a monthly pension of more than 5,000 yuan, a small house and a deposit of 65,438+10,000 yuan. He will give his son more than 2000 yuan every month, saying it is for his grandson. In fact, he wants to help his son reduce the pressure of loan.
I feel that I have a house, money and a car, and my daughter doesn't need my care. We both have the same hobbies. Lao Zhang seems to be the incarnation of my wife. I think it is understandable that he treats his son like this. Whose old man doesn't expect his children to live better?
I told Lao Zhang that we live in AA system, so you can make good food and clean up the housework, so I will be responsible for planting flowers and cleaning at home, and others will spend their own money.
My home is close to the square park, and there are supermarkets and hospitals around, so I asked Lao Zhang to move here, which is also convenient for us to play boxing and take a walk together.
Later, my good sister said that I was set up by Lao Zhang. I don't think this is a calculation. At least Lao Zhang takes care of me every day, and there is still true love between us. I can feel it..
Good sisters say that you can't spend 3,000 yuan a month on living expenses, and Lao Zhang has rented out his own house, so there will be rent, right? If you don't even pay the rent, you have to charge AA living expenses. This is not a calculation. What is this?
To tell the truth, I really don't think Lao Zhang deliberately took advantage of me. He gets up earlier than me every morning to cook porridge. We will have breakfast and do morning exercises together, and then we will buy food together.
He cooks, washes vegetables and cleans the room in the kitchen. I'm just taking care of myself. Usually do skin care, lying on the sofa listening to Kunqu mask.
When Lao Zhang has cooked the meal, my care here will be ready. After we finished eating, Lao Zhang tidied up. I cleaned the house and went back to the house. I surf the internet and he practices calligraphy.
In the afternoon, we will have tea together, drive to the botanical garden or ecological garden for a walk, come back to Lao Zhang to cook dinner, and we will go downstairs for a walk together. I feel that Lao Zhang takes care of me, unlike others who say that my partner does nothing.
Some sisters said that I paid a nanny to wait on myself. I think their idea is wrong. Even if ordinary couples don't do more, some people will do less. As long as two people have each other in their hearts, loving each other is a good life.
Although many sisters don't understand why I want to be calculated by Lao Zhang, in fact, they don't know the essence of life, and everything is so concerned and serious. What are your interests?
What men and women want is peaceful feelings for each other, as long as there is love. How much is enough? What's more, two elderly people who are over the age of sixty want to give more aid to their children. As long as there is someone who doesn't care, they can live a good life.
When people get old, they can live together sincerely, and they have also experienced a fate encounter. You don't have to care what others say. You should ask yourself more about your true feelings and feel happy.
In life, many people think that boarding is actually without emotional companionship, which is a wrong concept. Even if you are boarding, you should have an emotional foundation, have the same hobbies and be able to chat together. Only in this way will you be happier.
If you have a partner, and this partner is always calculating this and that with you, then you are not enough for one day. It's better to live your own life alone.
Since you choose to live together, you should open your heart to each other, explain your situation to each other sincerely, and pay sincerely. I think everyone's heart is fleshy and has feelings.
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About the author: A retired woman who is luxurious and Zen, loves life, practices Tai Chi with her left hand and writes with her right hand, and enjoys the rest of her life happily!