There are more and more "Vietnamese daughter-in-law" in rural areas. Why do Vietnamese women marry in China?
Marrying foreign wives, especially Vietnamese women, is popular in rural areas of China. So now we can see more and more Vietnamese women in rural areas. Most of them are young, beautiful and slim. Xiao Zhang, who just married a Vietnamese wife, looks very happy.
It is said that Vietnamese women are willing to marry China, because Vietnamese women generally have no social status in China, and women are called "big rice", "small rice" and "bread" by men. Moreover, Vietnamese men rarely feel at home, and these women have to submit to humiliation in life.
Although rural women in China are not dressed as well as Vietnamese women, most rural women wear simple and monotonous clothes and don't like to wear fancy clothes. But compared with young and beautiful Vietnamese women, China women's elegant temperament and beautiful appearance are more pleasing to the eye.
Vietnamese women spend most of their energy on dressing up, so although they can satisfy men's idea of being capable, they are not as good as China women when it comes to farm work. They can not only hoe, but also farm.
The countryside in China has always been a place where filial piety is observed. So rural women are filial and virtuous when they marry their husbands. It can be said that women in China are much better than young and ignorant Vietnamese women.
Why do Vietnamese women marry in China?
historical factor
Due to years of war, the ratio of men to women in Vietnam is seriously unbalanced, with more women than men, reaching 2:5. In Vietnam, women's status is generally low, which makes men very popular. Although monogamy is practiced here, there are also men with better conditions, three wives and four concubines, and the government generally does not interfere.
Vietnamese women like China people, especially those from Taiwan Province, Hongkong, Singapore and Chinese mainland. In addition to similar historical and cultural backgrounds, economic and social structure is also an important reason.
The economic crisis has swept many countries, and Vietnam is the hardest hit. A large number of factories closed down, and house prices in Hanoi, the capital, fell by half, greatly affecting people's lives. So many people want to go out and get married in China.
economic factor
The overall level of economic development in Vietnam is still relatively low, with an annual gross national product of $28.4 billion and a per capita income of around $350. Agriculture accounts for 30% of the gross national product, and the agricultural population accounts for 80% of the country's total population. It belongs to one of the underdeveloped countries in the world.
Although the development speed of Vietnam is accelerating now, most rural people are still poor. Many rural girls have no houses at home. Many people borrow money to buy houses and rent them out. Most of the houses they live in are shabby, but they are worth 10 thousand yuan in RMB.
Let us China people see that it is a dangerous building or not a house, and we can't live at all. Most better houses are built with the help of daughters who marry others. Even such a house has a population of more than seven people. Most of the three generations have sons and daughters. Needless to say, there are one or two old people, at least three children, and some six or seven are basically the same. Have fewer children, more sons, more children and more girls. As the saying goes, "money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money." Living in such a family, it is understandable that many girls want to marry rich China.
Cultural factor
Vietnam, the full name of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam, is a socialist country in Asia. Historically, northern Vietnam has long been the territory of China. In 939, it was said that it became independent from China in 968, and many feudal dynasties were established. Today, some poor and backward places still continue the decadent ideas of the feudal dynasty.
The phenomenon that men are superior to women is very serious in Vietnam, and betraying their daughters is considered to be in line with Confucius' thought and deeply rooted in many villages. In traditional families, daughters are always discriminated against. Earning money, doing housework and raising children are regarded as women's obligations.
Having an eldest daughter is better than having fertile rice fields and buffaloes, which is still very popular in the Mekong Delta. Backward filial piety is deeply rooted in Vietnamese girls and their parents who sell them to others.
Whether relatives sold them to China or came by themselves, they all lived here to be filial to their parents. Most girls won't be angry with their parents. What's more, China is very good both economically and otherwise, which makes those Vietnamese women want to come to China.
In fact, there are many similar incidents in real life. Gradually let us learn to think about this society.
Vietnamese women are willing to marry in China for two reasons.
First, there are too few men.
Due to years of war in Vietnam, adult men died abnormally, the ratio of male to female was seriously out of balance, and the phenomenon of more women than men was very serious. The slogan of "sacrificing a generation of women for Vietnam's development" put forward at the Central Congress of Vietnam shows its seriousness.
Because of the war, many men are disabled, and Vietnamese women have difficulties in finding men, not to mention the conditions. So Vietnamese women long for good men. On the other hand, China is rich in male resources and similar in traditional culture and customs. Viet Nam is close to China again. Vietnamese women don't want to hit China. Who is it?
Second: domestic men are of low quality, playboy.
There are more women than men, and many men have many lovers. Men call their wives beggars because Vietnamese food is eaten every day. Therefore, the first wife Minmei wants to marry is rice, the noodles that are more delicious than rice are the second wife, and the bread that is more delicious than noodles is the third wife. It seems that the white and tender rice noodles are the most favored little wives and honey. Many Vietnamese men eat noodles, bread and rice noodles. Vietnamese men have a high status, similar to some places in southern China.
Men can do nothing, drink tea, sit around and gamble, but leave all the work and housework to women. Even when they come back from the outside, men walk in front empty-handed, while women walk behind with heavy burdens. Otherwise, this woman will drown in saliva. Vietnamese women usually stop working and wait on men at home after marriage.
In fact, this does not stop men from looking for rice noodles, but if women are not at home, men will have an acceptable reason for Vietnamese to look for rice noodles. On the other hand, in our feminist era, yin flourishes and yang declines, and men have to do housework when they come back from work.
On the one hand, Vietnamese men basically don't work to make money, just waiting for their wives to raise money. On the one hand, most men in China are willing to do housework in order to earn money to support their wives and children, but they don't take a fancy to a large number of Vietnamese women who want to marry China people.
Three reasons why marrying Vietnamese women is better than marrying China women.
First: low requirements for men.
Speaking of which, some people may laugh at my incompetence. I admit that I am incompetent in the eyes of many women now, but I don't have to live forever. Vietnamese women's demands on China men are far lower than those of China women.
Second: Diligent housekeeping.
Willing to do housework and take good care of her husband. I once went to my brother's house to play. Sister-in-law has no job (brother works, although the salary is not high) and looks after the children at home. My brother is playing online games. It was half past five in the afternoon, and she didn't even want to cook in the kitchen. Finally, my brother stopped playing and asked her, so she went to cook with my brother. How lazy is she? I met a girl who came to my house to play, and I gave her chocolate. After eating, the wrapping paper was thrown directly on my bed. She didn't throw it in the trash until she left my house.
I think if your wife doesn't go out to work to earn money after giving birth and doesn't do housework at home (like my sister-in-law), will you be very upset? Marry a Vietnamese woman, at least to ensure that she can do housework without men. A few years later, when she is fluent in Chinese and familiar with the environment, find a job that she can do (you don't need to earn a lot of money to support your family; Men should earn more money. With the hard-working character of Vietnamese women, I think they should be willing to do it. If a buddy unfortunately marries a lazy Vietnamese girl, the divorce will be easy, only paying 20 thousand. It's better than divorcing a China woman and sharing your property.
Third: beautiful, beautiful and in good shape.
I'm not saying that Vietnamese women must be more beautiful than China women and better than China women, but that China men can choose beautiful women when they go to Vietnam. Think about it. At least 100MM stands in front of you for your choice. Is there a feeling of being an emperor? Isn't it easy to want something beautiful? It's good that you have a beautiful girlfriend in China. Will someone line up for you to choose? Some people say that there are many girls in rural China who don't need to go to Vietnam to find them, but think about it, there will be no ready-made 100MM for you to choose from anywhere in China, and you must spend more money than marrying Vietnamese women.
In Vietnam, there are tens of thousands of RMB to ensure that you pursue a college student MM and marry her home. How many people in China can spend tens of thousands of RMB to marry a female college student? The most important thing is that when you go to Vietnam, having a ready-made intermediary to help you contact MM will save you a lot of time. At the same time, a large number of hungry Vietnamese girls will be delivered to the door. In China, even if you know there are beautiful girls in the countryside, where can you find them? Many rural girls go out to work, but there are also many rural boys. Will he give it to you easily?
Anyway, I won't spend too much time looking in the countryside. This is a waste of time. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack. Besides, I have to work. How can I have time? Most Vietnamese women don't wear makeup and have a natural beauty, while some China women often spend more time on makeup than housework, wearing deep and heavy makeup, which makes me deeply sick. Vietnamese women who wear less makeup can help us discover that those are real facial features, and those are only supported by heavy makeup.
Conclusion: Through the above introduction, do you know why Vietnamese women are willing to marry in China? Vietnam is also a poor country, and every woman wants to change her destiny. After all, China is a better country. Compared with them, marrying China is undoubtedly a good choice.