1, because of my limited conditions and poor family, I want to leave my circle and enter the upper class, so I try my best to contact some rich people. I feel that after meeting these people, I will become such a person, as if I have reached a higher level. For example, you often deal with some powerful people. Do you feel that your resources are extensive and awesome? However, do people with real status regard you as a true friend? I don't think this would be the case. In people's eyes, you are just a buffoon.
Another is that you have limited economic conditions and can't afford high-end goods. But I want to wear some brand-name goods to show that I am different, so I use high imitation to package myself. Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy is such a person. Most of my salary is sent home, and a small part stays to support me to eat and drink Lazar. However, with her strength, she certainly can't afford a famous brand. She wants to find a rich husband and can only buy some high imitations. This is not the most serious. Some serious ones may borrow money to buy some high-end goods and let their husbands or boyfriends pay the bill.
3 Often lie, some people pretend to be rich second generation knowing that their families are poor. In order to make others respect her and get better resources, I did such a thing. But the lie will be exposed one day, and when her mask is pulled down, she will continue to pretend. Because I am used to this way, otherwise, I can't live for a day.
I have met some people with the strongest vanity, who are obviously divorced from the real society and have a great impact on their lives. I think such people feel inferior and extremely empty. It is because of material and spiritual dissatisfaction that we pretend to have it.