If you think so, you are wrong. If you only pay the mortgage after marriage, then there is really nothing. But do you really only pay the mortgage after marriage? That's not true. The living expenses of two people will also increase, and having children will make the pressure even greater. You must take care of your family and parents. You think it's that simple to pay off the mortgage?
Paying off the mortgage after marriage will make you feel a pain. I found that the mortgage was even more terrible than I expected. 3000 yuan a month, but this 3000 yuan, is it coming all at once? When getting married, for some post-90s generation, not having a wedding is a helpless choice. After consulting a wedding company, the reporter found that if you want to hold a decent wedding, you need at least 800 to 654.38+10,000 yuan. For some families who are not rich, this is indeed a big sum.
In addition, most post-90s people need to support at least four old people after getting married, and the huge economic pressure forced them to give up the wedding. For most post-90s generation, most of them have no experience, and they don't have much salary and savings. Holding a wedding means increasing their financial burden, which is exactly what they are worried about.
The high cost of the wedding also discourages most newcomers. My boyfriend and I are both working-class, with short working hours and little savings. Moreover, the two also plan to buy a house. If there is a wedding, the plan to buy a house can only be ruined. The economic pressure before marriage is so great, and the economic pressure after marriage is even greater. There are expenses everywhere in life, and the mortgage has to be paid back. Really tired. This is my financial pressure after marriage.