Once some people get divorced, they may be afraid of marriage, and they often don't have high expectations and hopes for marriage. However, marriage is never achieved overnight, nor can it be perfect, let alone once and for all.
In marriage, husband and wife should learn to be considerate and tolerant of each other, you should be able to really think for each other, and you should be able to meet each other's expectations and visions for marriage.
For couples halfway, they may encounter more unexpected difficulties. For example, they should learn to let go of the past, they should be able to truly tolerate and accept each other's past, and so on.
Generally speaking, if a couple can't do these things well in the middle, it is often difficult to get to the end.
Can't correctly handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
If a couple can't properly handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is often difficult to go to the end. When you divorce and start a new family with another person, you may face difficulties from your mother-in-law.
For divorced women, when you start a new family with a man who has never been married, you may be opposed by his parents.
If a man really loves you, then he will do the ideological work of his parents for you, and he will let his parents really accept and tolerate you.
If you marry a typical "mother-in-law", who always listens to her mother's arrangement and orders, and who never wants to think from your point of view, then you will be in an extremely passive situation in this marriage.
Husband and wife should learn to properly handle the contradictions and conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. On the one hand, for a woman, you should try to avoid confrontation with her mother-in-law, and you should give her more tolerance and forbearance.
On the other hand, for men, you should also put yourself in the wife's shoes. You should try your best to make a bowl of water even, stand up for your wife at a critical moment and fully consider her feelings and moods.
Only when husband and wife can properly handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in harmony, your marriage can be blessed by both families, and your marriage will be happier and come to the end.
Can't play the role of stepmother
Some people are reluctant to step into marriage again after divorce, often because they live with their children. When he considers whether to remarry, he will pay more attention to the children's feelings.
If you marry a divorced person who lives with a child, then you should be prepared to be a stepmother or stepmother. If you can't play the role of a good parent and stepmother in marriage, and you can't always win the trust of your partner and children, then it is often difficult for you to go to the end.
Before you decide to marry a divorced person, you should see if he lives with children. If he lives with his children, and you love him very much, and you can't wait to start a family with him, then you should learn to take the initiative to get on well with his children and win their trust and affirmation.
Only if his children are willing to accept you, and you can become one with his children, can you stand firm in the marriage and you two couples can come to the end.
Couples can't really talk
If the couple can't really talk halfway, the spiritual distance between you becomes extremely far away, and you can't talk together all the time, so it is often difficult for you to go to the end.
Because you are married halfway, you are divorced, so you may have bad feelings for each other, you are unwilling to open your heart to each other, and you can't calmly face each other's inner world.
If the husband and wife can't keep close communication and exchange halfway, and you even often doubt and test each other, you can't really integrate into each other's inner world, and you can't have a heart-to-heart conversation. There is always a cold wall between you, so it is naturally difficult for you to go to the end.
If a couple wants to go halfway, it is very important that you can fully accept each other's past, chat openly, and communicate in time to resolve various contradictions and misunderstandings in their feelings.
If you always refuse to trust each other, although you live under the same roof, but you have never had a heart-to-heart, you have almost zero communication, zero communication and zero interaction, and you always play with each other, then it is often difficult for you to go to the end.
In a word, if a couple can't really be yet I feel the harmonious heart-beat of the Sacred Unicorn, you can't live in harmony, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and play the roles of parents and stepmother, so it is often difficult for you to go to the end.
If the couple really want to go to the end, first of all, you should be sincere enough to each other, and you can communicate clearly in time, instead of ignoring each other and being indifferent and distant from each other.
Secondly, you should be able to properly handle various contradictions and conflicts in marriage, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Your marriage should be recognized and blessed by both parents as much as possible, so that the obstacles and obstacles in your marriage will be greatly reduced and your marriage will be happier and more stable.
If your married person or your married person is divorced and lives with children, then you should try your best to win the trust and love of the other child, and you should try your best to play the role of a good parent or stepmother.
Although couples may face various tests in the middle, as long as they are United and like-minded, your marriage will last for a long time and your feelings will grow deeper and deeper.