Both men and women have potential sadness. Love and marriage will become naked games about conditions. First, it's a woman. Needless to say, it must be a heartfelt insecurity. If you get married without raising objections, then after marriage, the woman will be completely passive and subject to the man everywhere. Will she be tired and happy? Because it is obvious: 1. You can't get real estate if you divorce. 2. Divorce is unequal between men and women. Divorce is a treasure for men, but grass for women. A woman is worthless when she is divorced. So this is very risky for women.
Next, look at the tragedy of men. Well, in this case, the woman will try to feel safe before marriage. She would say, "Do you love me?" If you really love me, we won't get married unless we write our names on the property certificate before marriage. What do you think of being a man?
This situation will lead to two situations: 1. On the contrary, it's getting easier and easier for rich people to get married. Rich people don't care, they signed the same name before marriage, and half a house is nothing when divorced, and neither man nor woman will bear it. . ) 2. It will become more and more difficult and passive for men without money or people with average economic ability to marry their wives. My parents finally boasted about the house they bought with money. You said that in case of divorce, their parents' lifelong hard work would be wasted for their girlfriend's love. But if they don't agree, will their last relationship give up like this? )
Therefore, I said that such amendments are only considered from the legal point of view, without considering people's emotional happiness! What do you think of him? He can make women independent. Are you kidding? Talking about women's independence in the light of China's current national conditions? Women's independence in developed countries in the United States is only relative. In fact, I have never been completely equal to China. People's Republic of China (PRC) was founded only a few decades ago. The law is still far from perfect, and all kinds of security systems are not perfect. Many problems such as ethnic discrimination and gender discrimination have not been solved. Do you want to be independent Is it possible? . . You're kidding!
Such modification can only lead to an increase in the social cost of marriage and a decrease in the happiness of love.
Supplement:
I think the revision of the marriage law may have a good starting point because of the introduction of good ideas of financial innovation, just like the financial crisis in the United States in 2008, but it may eventually lead to a crisis. Just as the revision of the marriage law is largely for the sake of high housing prices, it may backfire in the end! Then there are some unpredictable consequences. . Hey. . I hope my worry is unnecessary!