Make excuses. Then you should be careful. Unless he is really incapable, if he is capable, then his excuse is to perfunctory you. Actually, he doesn't want to help you either. If he doesn't help you, find something against him. If he doesn't help you, you will take action. Well, let's see who's tough, or we can just figure it out first. I think most of these men are hypocritical and don't really help you. Don't expect too much.