Parents' ideas are not unreasonable. How easy it is to get married, how many years less struggle without debt! However, the question of love, you weigh it in your mind, you are more concerned about that. If you are satisfied with the man, you can have the confidence to fight with him in the future, and no one cares about the loan. Your own heart should be independent. If you are not confident that you will not depend on your husband in the future, find someone who is not in debt. It's nothing. Finding a house is really better than getting into debt.