After all, there are countless love rat in life, which is hard to prevent. Those silly white sweet girls have no ability to parry at all. Once they meet love rat, they are just like a set of white rabbits.
most women struggle for a happy marriage all their lives, find a good husband, and then be a happy wife. But if the EQ is too low, a veteran routine love rat can play you around with little effort.
Are you shot in the following four types of girls who recruit black physique?
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Please-pleasing personality traits
If you want to ask me what kind of girls love rat likes to find most? It must be a girl who is used to pleasing each other. This kind of girl is not only easy to cheat, but also there are too many profitable places for him after being cheated.
because you not only regard him as a lofty male god, but also obey him, you will give him all your good things with both hands.
Xuan Xuan, the personnel sister, used to be a typical flattering sister. When she just graduated from college, she met a boy online, and after being together, she was incredibly kind to him.
I don't work hard at work and study recipes, thinking about how to cook good food for my boyfriend when I get home from work; In order to save money to buy a brand-name watch for her boyfriend, all the former cosmetic care products have become Dabao SOD honey; My boyfriend said that her breasts were a little small, so she took out a loan to have breast augmentation surgery ...... < P > But, you know what? When Xuan was washing clothes for her boyfriend at night, that love rat was lying on the sofa brushing some software, wondering how to buy her a hat. Xuan Xuan's relationship ended not because the other party cheated, but because of love rat's ruthless abandonment after cheating.
Giving without principles and giving in without a bottom line will not only get you the reward and treasure you deserve, but will only make the other person greedy and then bully you unscrupulously. As a song goes, those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored are fearless.
love rat seized your weakness, searched you harder and harder until you were drained, and then kicked you away mercilessly.
2
A girl who just fell in love
The time after a girl just fell in love is the most vulnerable time in her heart. If a boy asks you questions, comforts you and takes care of you at this time, it is easy to be touched by his behavior.
However, this is also the time when a girl's awareness of prevention is the weakest, and you will hardly think about what kind of person she is.
love rat precisely grasped this psychological characteristic of a girl after her lovelorn love, approached you on her own initiative, paid great attention to you, and slowly guided you to invest in him.
when you can't live without him at all, you will find that you have been trapped by him for a long time, and then you will fall into a vicious circle of unilateral payment. Because you are too afraid of repeating the same mistakes, afraid of being lovelorn and injured again, you will compromise with him.
So, if a boy approaches you enthusiastically and actively after you just fell out of love, you must keep your eyes open and learn to use the four-dimensional judgment method to distinguish whether he really likes you or sets you up.
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A girl who lacks love experience
What love rat is best at is those little whites who have no love experience. This kind of girl usually stays single and has never been in love more than once or twice. Even boys rarely come into contact with each other, how can they have the critical eye to identify love rat?
I have a college roommate. Every time he is lovelorn or dumped, he is used to flirting with girls who have no love experience to heal himself. Moreover, a Liao Liao several.
once, he hooked up with a girl in our class, and they flirted on the phone every night. The girl brought him breakfast and knitted him a scarf every day. They were all next to each other in class. At that time, the whole class thought they were in love.
but after two weeks, suddenly it's not sexy. Do you think his conscience was discovered? Yes, because he and his girlfriend are back together. So he often said, since you have a girlfriend, don't be ambiguous everywhere, which is not good.
so, every time he is broken up, he only makes love with different girls. Once we made up, we immediately distanced ourselves from those stupid people and put on the appearance of "I am a serious person".
Later, the girl in our class suffered from severe depression because of my roommate. When you are in class, you will cry involuntarily and don't want to talk to others more. Until graduation, I remember that she liked to be alone, with a dull expression and a heavy face.
After all these years, I wonder if my "decent" roommate can remember the girl he once hurt, and finally she became depressed.
at the beginning, I was passionate about you and sweet-talked you, but when you were hooked, I ignored your love. Because of your lack of love experience, others will cheat you by hooking your fingers and have no sense of accomplishment. He only comes to you when he needs you, so you should know that he just takes you as a spare tire and doesn't like you at all.
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Climbing high
Climbing high is not a close-up of this era, but a common problem of human beings. In ancient times, women hoped to marry dignitaries. In modern society, women hoped to marry Gao Fushuai ... This is only for a better life in the future, and there is nothing wrong with it in essence.
many people clearly know that their value is not very high, and they fantasize that a rich second generation will appear in front of her all day, and then take her to the palace of marriage and the peak of life.
The story of Cinderella and the prince only lives in fairy tales. In real life, after the prince and Cinderella are together, the prince abandons Cinderella because he likes the new and hates the old.
after all, the biggest premise of feelings is equal value.
A girl with junior high school education is with a doctor. Who can guarantee that she will not dislike you? You are just a working girl. Gao Fushuai, who drives a Ferrari, said that she likes you and wants to live with you forever. Do you believe that?
blindly pursuing the high value of others, that is, climbing high. A girl with a strong aloof mentality, people just need to hook their fingers and immediately surrender, can they not be short-chosen?
people have lived so long, who wouldn't fall in love with a few scum? But you can't jump in the same pit twice, let alone many times. Therefore, we must learn a lesson and recognize our own problems before we can stop loss in time to avoid another emotional consumption.