Young people have not entered the society for a long time and their income is limited, but they have not given up their pursuit of exquisiteness. They become poor for the life they yearn for and the things they like, and are collectively called "exquisite poverty" by netizens.
The horn of the Double Eleven is about to blow, and the sixth season of Romance also launched a debate on "exquisite poverty" at this time:
In this issue, we invited a koi fish guest "YCY". In the face of exquisite poverty, she revealed: Once, she only got 800 yuan's salary for a month, but when she saw her favorite skirt in the street, she was determined to spend 700 yuan to buy it, and she spent the rest of this month drinking rice porridge.
When Cai Kangyong asked: Can this skirt bring positive energy? Beyond the elder sister's answer:
"Young people's life is sometimes like eating *, but they can eat it if they swallow it, so I want to make this * as chocolate as possible." Xu Jiru, a refreshing newcomer to Harvard this season, made people shine at the beginning.
She told the story that the East has worked well. Dong Shi doesn't know the beauty of Shi. Beauty lies in temperament and beauty lies in the heart. Blind imitation makes her uglier. However, Xu Jiru thinks this is not wrong. This is the first lesson of Dong Shi's understanding and awakening of beauty. Back to the debate, only when you really experience exquisite poverty and feel it can you make changes.
Here, on the contrary, I feel that Jiru's words are also acknowledging the problem of exquisite poverty itself, but such problems are not taught by others and need to be felt by himself. And I think high flyers Zhan Qingyun, a well-deserved MVP in this competition, is also a student of Harvard Law School.
From the perspective of transcendence and Jiru, we heard the loyalty of young people and paid for my love. Is this wrong? Zhan Qingyun said that we are not paying for what we like, but for the concept of "exquisiteness": "Because a voice keeps telling us with traffic and online celebrities, this is called exquisiteness".
When my friend saw this passage, he blurted out, "Isn't that me?" Due to the exquisite field created by merchants, more and more things used for other purposes are piled up in small rental houses. What Zhan Qingyun said is a series of parallelism sentences that never have a full stop.
"When do we feel close to exquisiteness?" "The moment you place an order." We thought we were close to the role model after buying these, but the difference is that our role model is really learning and running, which takes time to accumulate. What merchants care about is not time, but the moment when you instantly improve and burst, the fleeting coolness.
As a postal student, I can understand Qingyun's words very well. I choose carefully before each purchase, reminding me that I am very excited at the moment I place an order, but it gradually becomes boring after arrival. We are the victims of this exquisite illusion world, but we are also the builders of this consumption wave.
Once, a female college student was mercilessly exposed by her roommate. In her circle of friends, it is an ins-style dormitory, but in the eyes of roommates, it is very sloppy. In front of the camera, the so-called neatness is nothing more than putting a small table in the corner of the dormitory, covering the messy place with plain cloth as the background, and posing for food and yourself in the camera. And this exquisiteness makes her spend at least 4000 yuan every month.
From a psychological point of view, human nature always tends to accept a better and better life. This exquisiteness transcends the efforts that we need time to accumulate and directly reaches the end of our efforts. When we tasted the sweetness in advance, all that remained was hardship.
Some people say, "It's also enjoyment. Wouldn't it be better if I went in first? " Fatally, we enjoy the process and can't wait to work hard. Our desire is like a growing ball. When you haven't worked hard enough to support this expenditure, your next desire has already aimed at your goal.
In Friends, Ross met a "delicate" girl. When he came to the girl's house, he found that exquisiteness was just a representation:
Pseudo-exquisiteness is an illusion maze with no turning back. The farther you go, the deeper you get, and poverty is only one of the costs.
Remember the famous saying of Mano, the gold digger, in If You Are the One? It seems that she became popular on the Internet in one sentence, but was finally banned by SARFT for uncivilized behavior.
Huang Zhizhong talked about Zhan Qingyun in the program: He borrowed 654.38+00,000 yuan and owed a lot of money abroad to study at Harvard, but he was able to read Zhuangzi quietly on the subway. This inner richness can constantly pave the way for her better future.
The essence of human beings is roughness, and the so-called exquisiteness is a kind of packaging that we deliberately cover up. Exquisite itself is not illegal, whether it is exquisite or rough, it is a kind of existence, and existence is reasonable.
The difference is that external exquisiteness requires us to consume constantly, while internal exquisiteness can produce for us continuously. The former lies in self-deception and can't accept the original life, but the latter can really embrace this rough world. Even if he lives a rough life in a rough environment, he feels full because of his inner wealth.
Double Eleven is coming, and the overwhelming activities this year are also advanced. "One operation is as fierce as a tiger, and Gai Lou's last 25 cents." Looking at the shopping cart in the mobile phone, which ones are paying for the concept of "exquisiteness"?
Unload the burden? Go to the gathering place of young people? Listen to the truest voice
Author: Mr. Gao Bai.
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