An excuse for not going to the party temporarily. In my life, I believe many friends have been invited to parties, but they don't want to go. I don't know how to refuse, so I have to bite the bullet and leave. Below I compiled an excuse for not going to the party temporarily.
An excuse for not going to the party temporarily 1 1, getting sick.
It can be that you are sick, or your parents, brothers and sisters are sick, but you should pay attention to "suddenness". When you are invited to the party for the first time, you must say yes happily and show that you want to go. Wait until the day of the party to send a text message to explain the situation of "suddenly sick, I really want to go, but I really can't." At this time, the party organizer will often reply to you, "Oh, what a pity. Take good care of yourself and wait until you are well."
2. Make another appointment for dinner
If a colleague or friend invites you to dinner and you don't want to go, you say, "Sorry, I have other plans tonight." I'll invite you out to dinner another day. "
3. Very important things have been arranged.
When you receive an invitation to a party, you can first confirm whether the party time has been set with the other party. If the other person answers "Yes", you can wait for a while before replying to the other person: "Long time no see, I really want to go, but I have something very important to go to xxx that day, and I may really be unable to go." At this time, the other party will often reply to you "Oh, what a pity, I will send you more photos of the party then" and refuse to succeed ~
A good friend should accompany him in an emergency.
If you choose this reason, you can promise to attend the party first and come to the scene first on the day of the party. /kloc-after 0/5 minutes, ask your good friend to call yourself and pretend something is wrong (robbery, car accident, sudden lovelorn, etc. In this case, no one will force you to stay, but this method needs attention: this friend who colluded in advance has no intersection with these students who attended the party. The safest way is to choose college students. Rejection succeeded ~
5. Need to go out
When someone treats us and we don't want to go, we can say that we need to go out for the night. After the other party generally hears about it, it will not continue to invite.
6. Long-distance boyfriend and girlfriend need your company.
This method is flexible to use. Non-singles can talk to their boyfriends/girlfriends in advance and put on a show on the day of the party. Single students can also pretend to be in love. The key is that they must have the attribute of "being in a different place" and show the attitude of "it is difficult to meet a person". I believe that no one will keep you at this time, and at most, they will say that you are "forgetting your friends at the sight of color". Rejection succeeded ~
7. I have to work overtime and have no time.
Said the work was not finished and needed to work overtime. If a colleague invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can politely refuse your colleague on the grounds that you have a lot of work recently and need to work overtime.
8. Loans
Because something happened recently, my family spent a lot of money and owed a sum to the bank. So I have to work two jobs in the future, and I have to go to work in my spare time. There are many things to be busy at home. This move may be very effective, because as soon as you say that you owe money, others will subconsciously worry about asking for money when they hear it. Even if I don't think so, I dare not push you any more.
Excuses for not going to the party temporarily 2 No time.
People who really have no time don't exist. As the saying goes, "time is a sponge, and there will always be a squeeze." The planning of time will always be influenced by the degree of attention and importance. Sometimes it's not because she doesn't have time, but because she doesn't pay enough attention to you, so she thinks your date is not as important as work and life, so that she uses it as an excuse to avoid meeting you.
Not in the mood
Being in a bad mood is probably a subjective excuse. Sometimes it is because I am in a bad mood that I don't want to deal with these complicated ways of the world. However, some people are really in a bad mood. The reason why they are in a bad mood is because they are dating you. Because this blind date made her feel bored and distressed, they didn't want to participate in the blind date. This is mostly because she is not interested in you and doesn't want to face you directly.
other things
Some people will make their excuses more clear, so as to strengthen their credibility, such as having an important meeting at work, having an important restaurant to attend, or having an important customer to visit, and so on. It is more important to have an important party in life, make an appointment in advance, or have physical problems with relatives and friends.
In short, it is more important than your date, and there is no suitable reason to attend. She may apologize to you slightly, but on the other hand, she implies that these are all external factors beyond her control, which are all very important and can only be apologized slightly. In this way, you have no choice but to void it.
Be in a bad mental state
Her mental state is not good. Maybe she stayed up late last night and had no energy to make an appointment. Maybe she didn't care about your appointment at all, so she lied that she was in poor spirits and made an appointment another day. But the word "another day" almost gave you a blank check. This situation can only show that she really doesn't value you, so she will be so perfunctory to you.
out of sorts
Physical discomfort is always the most appropriate excuse. Because physical discomfort is not subjective and controllable, and most people don't want to get sick, just to avoid dating you at the expense of physical exhaustion? It seems unlikely and not very cost-effective, so physical discomfort always has high credibility. Even for this reason, you will be caring and attentive to her to show your concern and love for her. People who are really unwell will be warm at least in the face of your concern, while people who are indifferent or even disgusted with you will feel that they care too much about you.
journey abroad
Traveling abroad is one of the uncontrollable external factors, and because of reasons from other places, you can directly cut off your idea of dating. But in reality, it is very common to suddenly receive a notice from the company and go on a business trip abroad, so it also needs specific analysis. Maybe she really received the notice from the company, so she can't jump to conclusions just because of her doubts.
An excuse for not going to the party temporarily. Don't like excitement
Resistance index: ★★★★
Don't you know that there is another kind of person called "Ice Beauty" in this world?
We don't like being busy and staying with a group of people. Is it wrong for us?
You must let me go to a group dinner, which is specially prepared for me.
Your mother hit you-unreasonable.
Let me be a little cold around me silently.
Expand the remaining 86%
Dinner was boring.
Resistance index: ★★★★
Don't invite me to dinner, I'm interested in food,
Not interested.
For this maturity beyond age,
In the struggle stage of youth,
Rare and precious?
so
out of sorts
Resistance index: ★★★★★☆.
Yes ~ really, really,
No ~ fake, fake,
No, sue,
There are always a few days,
Don't want to go, eat, drink, sing or play,
I'm tired and need a rest.
Time conflict
Resistance: ★★★★★☆.
Don't say anything What else is there?
More important than dinner.
The fact is: yes!
You skipped class, but I want to sleep!
You don't have to hand in the materials, but I have to!
Of course, if you are willing to help me write the material exam,
I won't say anything!
be unfamiliar with
Resistance degree: ★★★★★
Although we are in a group, neither I nor anyone else is the best in the universe.
Eating with people you don't know,
Embarrassing cancer
Cann't even let go,
Don't open Sam, or don't go,
Don't like getting drunk
Resistance degree: ★★★★★
Drinking buddy: "Let's have a drink for so many years of friendship."
Inner os: "So our friendship for so many years is only worth a glass of wine?"
Persuader: "If you don't drink, you just don't give me face."
Inner os: "I don't want to give it to you in my heart."
I'm still a baby, okay? !
Do you really want to see me throw up on you?
Don't want to see anyone
Resistance degree: ★★★★★★☆.
The surface is calm, but the heart is already choppy.
Are incompatible,
May I be free from all these pains,
May this man also be free from pain,
May I stay happy and quiet,
May this person stay happy and quiet.
health hazard
Resistance degree: ★★★★★★☆.
Forget the occasional overeating,
I can stand getting drunk occasionally.
But did you go back to the dormitory to rest after dinner?
Pattern!
A high meal without going to KTV is not a meal!
Those who can return at night 1 1 and 12 should be thankful, because they have been lucky enough to escape a demon named "Bao Ye".
Feel exhausted ......
Losing money
Resistance degree: ★★★★★★★
The reason why I don't want to eat is very simple, that is-
No money! No money! No money!
You have to spend forty or fifty dollars per meal,
That's my food for two or three days. Hey!
Three days together, five days together,
Honey, I can't stand putting money in my wallet!
Don't make me pay if you dare to take me to dinner!