One sentence shifted my chin by two inches. I said that the era of beating local tyrants and landlords is long history. Do you still need to borrow money?
Lao Huang is a famous tycoon in the circle, nicknamed Huang Shiren. It can be said that Lao Huang's lack of money is as incredible as the lack of food in the grain depot.
It turns out that Lao Huang grew up alone. When I got married on May 1 last year, I bought a house with a little balance and asked Lao Huang for help.
Lao Huang thought, although this boy doesn't work hard at ordinary times, he still can't delay the lifelong event and transfer the money without saying anything. The other party was also very grateful at the time and repeatedly said that he would give him the money when he got married.
Later, after the marriage ended, all the money was collected, and Lao Huang gave him a big red envelope. But after marriage, I haven't seen each other say anything about paying back the money.
Lao Huang didn't care at first, until they spent a long honeymoon after marriage, and still didn't mean to pay back the money. Lao Huang knocked from the side, but the other side pretended to be deaf. Finally, Lao Huang was in a hurry and directly pointed out that the other party was short of money, and the Mid-Autumn Festival would give it to him.
Although uncomfortable, at least I got a reply, but what happened later made Lao Huang depressed, and the other party always had reason to push the time limit to the next holiday.
Until the end of the year, Lao Huang is going to buy his own car. After paying the fare and completing all the formalities, Lao Huang was almost hollowed out. So I found the other person again, and I didn't want him to spread his hands out, indicating that there was nothing I could do.
Finally, Lao Huang had no choice but to ridicule: "Maybe I lent you fake money at that time."
In some people's eyes, commitment is just a means to gain benefits, which is negligible in the face of selfish humanity and can even be thrown away at any time.
China has had the principle of helping the poor since ancient times, but there are still some people who are not even poor, just vain, addicted to enjoying a life beyond their ability, but shamelessly ask others to help him pay the bill.
A girl I know, Qiuqiu, recently encountered a very disturbing thing.
One of her classmates of six years has been borrowing money from her since last year. It was fine at first, and I paid it back until the appointed time. Later, I slowly began to default. Finally, I simply didn't mention paying back the money, but just kept borrowing it.
Although the amount borrowed by the other party at a time is not large, it ranges from 200 to 4500. But we are all students. Apart from the living expenses given by parents, it is part-time income in spare time, and there is no big source of income.
Moreover, the other party is not without money, at least in the circle of friends, he can always be seen basking in various tourist foods, and the mobile phone logo under Dynamic Weibo has also climbed from the original iphone6 to the iphone7plus.
Later, I happened to chat with a few friends, only to find that he borrowed all his classmates and friends around him. Therefore, Qiuqiu decided not to lend him any more money, nor to return text messages or answer phone calls.
But he always leaves messages through various channels.
I was at home during the winter vacation two days ago, and the other party actually called her with another number. Instead of paying back the money, she asked her why she didn't reply to the message in a rather dissatisfied tone.
There was resentment in his speech, which delayed his great event.
The ball, which has always been good-tempered, exploded directly: "My money didn't fall from the sky. I took part-time jobs to earn money in cold weather. Why should I let you spend it? "
It's shameless and well-founded.
When others borrow money, they treat you as one of their own, and when they pay back, they can treat themselves as others.
At the beginning of last year, my brother began to cooperate with an automobile 4S shop, responsible for the overall decoration and beauty of the cars in their shop. Shortly after the opening of the 4S store, the boss found him and said that the newly opened store was short of funds and hoped to help as much as possible.
After working in the industry for so long, I naturally understand. So I paid for the 4S store, and I didn't settle the accounts regularly according to the contract like other 4S cooperative stores.
After a year, I don't know how much it cost. I didn't pay the bill several times, but I got a thick bill.
At one time, his own cash flow was difficult. He asked the store for money and didn't want to be pushed back directly by the other party: "You have cooperated with so many stores, and you only know how to find our one?"
As soon as my brother heard this wrong, he stopped showing his feelings and ran directly to their shop. In the end, the other party was no longer arrogant, but he changed into a weak and rogue posture.
"I've been running to the hospital these days because I'm sick. You just call to collect the bill at this time, and everyone will be uncomfortable. "
Sure enough, everyone who owes money now has become an uncle. When creditors have their own difficulties and want their own things back, they must take care of each other's emotions.
I did my best for you, and now you want me to pretend to be a grandson.
There is such a joke on the internet.
Why should I repay the borrowed money myself?
I have to admit that people's hearts are warm and cold now, icing on the cake is everywhere, and there are very few in the snow. It's really a skill to borrow money with a phone call.
But borrowing money shows your ability, and paying back money tests your cultivation. When you accept money from others, it is equivalent to mortgaging the credit to the other party.
Failing to pay back within the time limit is tantamount to overdrawing one's credit, and finally putting oneself in a helpless situation.
China has a tradition of paying back debts since ancient times. In the minds of normal people, borrowing money is actually a hard thing to say.
But now there are such a group of people who can always play a mixed card of emotion and money with ease and enjoy the benefits. Even the three views are distorted to the extreme.
It is only natural that I am in a hurry to borrow money. It is unkind of you not to borrow money. Sorry I'm late. It is immoral for you to find money to force debts.
For such people, you really don't have to worry about feelings. Talking about feelings hurts money. We should send them Ulvi Wei Chu's classic quotations directly.
If you don't pay back the money you owe, I'll fuck you.
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